Whether it be you went through a bad relationship, a divorce, or even just your own analysis of male and female interactions, no matter what reason you decided to stop doing circus acts for women, you'll get talked down upon like a MF. Even by your own fellow men/friends. We've accepted that you do want to date because we don't give a fuck what you do with your life, if something happens between you, we want NO part of it. But on the other end, why is me not dating or entertaining the thought of it an issue, why is my decision to stay away from the BS and drama affecting your life ultimately bringing ME unnecessary BS and drama. I can make a wild guess and just say that misery LOVES company, and because it's not "Normal" to say no to pussy. I'm glad I grew up in the generation I did, because it showed me that I do have options outside of relationships/sex and whatever the shit. I got hobbies that I have turned into my career. But "MUHPUSSPUSS".