so.. how many of u have stabbed a potential brother in the back? keep it real.

full disclosure: i've always been distrustful of women and aware of the legal/financial/etc dangers they pose to us, but im not strictly an mgtow. in all fairness, i don't easily trust anyone – man or woman.

in case you were wondering, here's why i'm asking: i'm pretty socially adept, and i tend to hang out with different groups of people. i've got only one close confidant (who no longer lives in the same country) and it happens to be a guy -- for obvious reasons. i do however keep in touch with a lot of women, probably even more than guys. i never count on them for anything ofc and im not a favor-doer to start with, but they're a good source of unfiltered female logic. u know what they say, keep ur enemies closer (tho i dont necessarily think of all women as enemies). whatever, u catch my drift.

ive been close with absolutely vile women -- serial cheaters and top-notch manipulators. but not all of them are like, there are some genuinely considerate ones too that ive encountered.

which brings me to the other thing. there are guys out there that will do you worse than women.

one of the reasons ive always been distrustful of women is because i lost my virginity to one of my best friends' gf (he hadnt even fucked her yet, she was a virgin too). honestly, about half of all the women ive slept with have been in a relationship (a small chunk were married, ive got a thing for milfs) and i knew about it. it only made the whole experience more enjoyable.

i was in my first relationship last year (im 27 now). i slept with 10+ other women for the 13 months it continued. i have no regrets at all, because i did a lot of good things for my gf and in a way my promiscuity was a reward i kept secret because i didnt want to hurt her (which is the same argument most women use, i know). she found out about it, i lied, and kept doing it. again, i was nice to her a lot of times, but i caused her a lot of pain in the end. i'm not proud of it, but it's the truth.