Posted to Advice and got met with people saying I'm too controlling. What do you all think?

jkarovskaya · 2017-07-13T16:52:16+00:00

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inspiron3000 · 2017-07-13T17:12:31+00:00

Welcome to MGTOW.

After denial there will be anger.

VoxVirilis · 2017-07-13T16:40:49+00:00

Now i never suspected her of cheating on me, nor have I had any reason to and this was no exception

is not compatible with

but when I asked her who it was she immediately got defensive.

2017-07-13T17:24:25+00:00

She probably sucked his dick before she got dropped off

JujuTroll · 2017-07-13T18:05:42+00:00

She's already fucked that dude, guarantee it. No way she acts like that otherwise.

2017-07-13T18:04:51+00:00

Not controlling to her means she can do whatever the fuck she wants and you don't have shit to say about it and she never has to take your feelings into account.

Why are you dating a crazy woman that dresses like a slut to go meet her dad?

Talkytalktalk · 2017-07-13T18:41:13+00:00

End it

devil27 · 2017-07-14T01:30:45+00:00

I'm really sorry for you but this doesn't seem to be the right forum to post such stuff.

gods_bones · 2017-07-13T16:59:35+00:00

Women love the word "relationships" and "commitment" because relationships are a purposely vague definition, but commitment is not. That's why women call everything a relationship, because it allows them to get away with anything they leech off a man, whether it be sex, money, status, free favors, whatever.

She's not cheating on her boyfriend ... she's just in a "relationship" with another guy at the moment.

She's not using that beta orbiter for favors and attention. It's just a "relationship" he has with her.

She's not a sugar baby looking for some rich millionaire daddy to buy her free shit ... she's in a "relationship" with a stable older man who knows how to take care of her the way she deserves.

So straight off the bat, you know that women intentionally misclassify their relationships to make it seem vague with no ulterior motive. The question is, why should you commit to her when she refuses to tell you anything and calls you "controlling" when you ask what she is doing? What is she bringing to the table to keep YOU around?

jkarovskaya · 2017-07-13T20:38:54+00:00

IF you are married, you certainly would be justified to ask who the strange guy is, and what her past is with the guy.

If you're still dating, not so much.

Please consider just dropping this woman, and focussing on yourself, your career, your health and fitness, your interests, and your own life goals.

Read up on MGTOW, and why it can literally save you, both physically and financially

MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Io8XVCxwMaE&feature=share

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6n386t/eyes_wide_open_and_recognize_exactly_what_their/

2017-07-13T21:00:11+00:00

The he's gay line. Tell her the truth that a woman needs to be taught how to act and dress appropriately by a man. If she doesn't oblige, walk.

2017-07-13T21:47:32+00:00

when I asked her who it was she immediately got defensive

She's cheating. Should have gone your own way. Hope you're not married to this Cunt

2017-07-13T21:54:59+00:00

Lol.

Welcome to MGTOW.

elTrasgo · 2017-07-13T22:29:30+00:00

lol dump her lying cheating ass

2017-07-14T01:00:13+00:00

There's not enough info here, two different pics? Is dad in the one with the guy? I'll be honest my sisters don't wear clothes like that to eat with my dad...

mentalidade_logica · 2017-07-14T02:06:57+00:00

Her defensive mechanism is the only control here.

nor have I had any reason to and this was no exception,

That's because you don't cheat on her, thus you judge her by your actions. Sorry to tell ya but being defensive + "don't have to tell you everything'' + accusations = Self-GUILT.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2017-07-14T13:47:37+00:00

Sorry to tell you this man, but AWALT and this one shows the exact behaviour of a girl that's already hamstering her reasoning with her cheating. Drop her.. ghost her..

Title	Posted to Advice and got met with people saying I'm too controlling. What do you all think?
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Upvotes	9
Comments	23
Date	July 13, 2017 4:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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