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[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't let breathing in air take over your life. Fight oxygen addiction, so you don't feel guilty about taking oxygen away from poor kids in Africa.
[–]VoxVirilis5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do not, my friends, become addicted to water. It will take hold of you, and you will resent it's absence.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WHY DONT YOU BAG THE OXYGEN AND SHIP IT OVER TO THEM
[–]jblack9412 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
IMO videogames are way more addictive and time consuming than porn. I've wasted entire days playing video games, never more than a couple of hours on porn.
[–]Agamand19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't see were the problem is.
[–]WAFC4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I spent a whole day enjoying myself too. It was awesome.
[–]89Thoradin2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had a video game addiction. I didn't eat didn't even move for hours on end. I weighed in at 100 pounds. I skipped school just to play games or I'd be so tired I'd just sleep on the bus. Games can be an addiction and the worst part is you have no idea how bad it is until you get to the real world. I would get extremely agitated over just not playing games. I have managed to kick the addiction but I crave it every day.
[–]Agamand1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here I see the problem.
[–]Real_nimr0d5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why that time is wasted given you were having fun and enjoying the time playing video games? is't that what we should be chasing in life? happiness? how is being happy bad?
[–]_Hachiman_Hikigaya_10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Porn.
Porn is for bluepills.
[–]Agamand5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I thought woman tell men not to watch porn and bluepillers obey.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Blue pills don't watch porn because their slave master princess tells them they better not watch porn. And even then they still pathetically sneak like children. I try not to watch porn because I realize how destructive it is to the mind.
It's different.
[–]BooDoug1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
or for the asleep red pills.
[–]Crisgocentipede0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good way to look at it. Anything to get me to stay clear of it
[–]broeddy10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
on the bright side, unlike marriage, its possible to come out of this addiction ahead, with some self control and discipline.
also, don't shame yourself about it, that's what society wants to get you back on the plantation. just use in moderation, and MGTOW.
[–]Prometheus4447 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is no problem with watching porn, even on a daily basis. People make stupid posts like this because they have a problem themselves and want to project it to other people. I watch porn everyday, and it serves a purpose (relieving sexual tension). It in no way keeps me from forming meaningful relationships, pursuing my hobbies, or living a fulfilling lifestyle. I truly disagree with posts like this and it only tells me the person making it suffers from a lack of self-control.
[–]Crisgocentipede1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Agreed, I lack self control. Was just trying to gain some insight. I am just annoyed at times that what I could be doing is a waste of time. It does help at times. Just tires me and dont see it as productive or as fullfilling as I once thought
[–]Prometheus4440 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Understandable in your case.
[–]mrp_18447 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is the point of porn? Its all make believe. Its not real.
Those girls would never talk to an average guy. They are just there for the money acting. Its all fake.
[–]redsfan2774 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it is addicting and an addiction...i do it constantly at least once a day....its weird even when im fucking a girl idk why maybe its wired in my brain?
But i dont like it...when i dont jerk off i wake up with woodys and/or jizz all over me pants. Wet dreams and the like.
Its like holding me hostage...i waste so much time on it...its ridiculously addicting.
Usually when im outdoors walking, doing something with my body/hands i dont get the urge....but its tough bc im in an office all day working with computers...when im sitting around all day i get lethargic and feel like touching myself.
Also i noticed when i jerk off my grip seems to weaken...idk..is that a thing with anyone else? i feel my forearm muscles contract and get weaker
[–]sadbasturd992 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I do porn for about 20 min a night. If I don't jerk off once a day I have sexual dreams that wake me up and fuck with my life. I hope I am not an addict. But I worry.
[–]WAFC0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like it impacts your life in a positive way and takes up a very small portion of your time. I suppose you're an addict in the same way that a person that has two beers every day is an alcoholic, but whatever.
[–]Crisgocentipede1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks everyone for the advice. I just want to not become too dependent on it. I see the health benifits, but I guess moderation is key. I dont have it as bad but want to be careful that I not go down a slippery slope
[–]Real_nimr0d1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I only watch like 30 mins a day at maximum, can't be that bad!
[–]Xlasingx0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
there is nothing to feel guilty about..
it's relieving the biological imperative within you..
now if you're compelled to do this in public or involuntarily, there may be something else going on, though just watching porn and rubbing one out, this is natural..
if anything, whether religious upbringing or societal judgement, etc., you have taken on something, you have been judged upon..
my advice, when the need arises, do so and subscribe to the idgaf ideology.. (which is MGTOW..)
anyone whom shames you for this and or claims they do not masturbate is lying to you and themselves..
no need to ever feel guilty about this..
plus ejaculation helps against prostate cancer,
http://www.harvardprostateknowledge.org/does-frequent-ejaculation-help-ward-off-prostate-cancer
I just want to be in better control is all. Maybe keep my attention on things that help me. Give me knowledge, a better body and better self esteem and control of my emotions is all
[–]Xlasingx0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
excellent!!
you should do those things for yourself, step by step..
one thing to add, "control of my emotions", just to clarify and just in case..
emotions/feeling are unavoidable, you simply cannot help this, as they is natural.. how you react to those emotions/feelings, you have direct control over and what you choose to do with them, is the change within..
[–]csbfxe1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Masturbation isn't wrong, and porn in and of itself isn't bad either, the problem Is that regular use leads to desensitization to the neurochemicals which are released during sex and other pleasurable experiences, leading to an escalation in what us required to achieve the same high. You have to decide for yourself if you are willing to accept the changes to your brain in exchange for watching pleasurable porn.
[–]Xlasingx1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i would agree, it's possibly for some..
in my past, it never presented issues for me..
[–]WAFC0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
People say this, but I've been watching the same kind of porn nearly daily for over a decade and have seen no need for escalation. Every now and then I find a video outside of my comfort zone that does it for me at that moment, but I find that is based more on a libido cycle than a need for escalation. Often if I go back to that same video a week later it does nothing for me.
[–]csbfxe0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm curious, what kind do you watch? Is it soft core?
No, it's a specific, fairly common fetish.
[–]csbfxe0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it's an infinite escalation, it's just that you finally reach a point where the porn you find agreeable isn't as exciting as it once was.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Porn is what (((they))), the hard drive manufacturers, want!
it's also what broadband companies want. 4k porn means people will pay more for (((bandwidth)))
[–]Worunn0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody rational needs an argument for this. The real cause of your issues is that you decided to follow emotions like a woman instead using your reason like a man should.
Great post. I bet we all battle this addiction but most on here prefer to pleasure the flesh and see nothing wrong with it. It is wrong! Porn is of Satan, got everyone hooked, really hooked once the internet came about.
[–]steelfil6660 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
OP you are on the wrong subreddit. You will find the comfort and guidance you need on /r/NoFap
Thanks. Probably was the wrong way and place phrase this.
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