So I recently discovered this place, and kinda felt at home. I haven't been with a woman in over 6 years now and I don't really miss it. And with the rising liberal/SJW/lgbtwhatever communities I kind of shut myself away from the outside world to spare myself being surrounded by all the degeneracy.

But now they're starting to infect my family as well. Both my brothers now have a girlfriend and ever since I barely see them anymore. They've taken over their lives and they do anything to be with them. Even if I organize a nice bbq to have kind of a guys day, they insist on bringing them along. So now my brothers both have become cucks and I don't know whether to blame it on them or on their girlfriends. I tried red-pilling them but to no effect. They're too much white knights constantly virtue signaling to stay in the good graces of their women.

After a year of this I decided to spend more time with a good friend of mine, only to discover he's also kind of a hypnotized chad. He earns a lot of money and on his workplace he's constantly surrounded by chads and he now thinks r/TheRedPill is the answer. He's constantly trying to improve himself to be this extroverted alfa chad who need to fuck bitches every weekend because otherwise his life has no meaning. But while he thinks he's redpilled, in reality he's being more of a beta than any of them because he's letting his obsession with getting women control his whole life on a daily basis and changed so much to the point I'm getting tired of hanging around him anymore..

So now i've lost my family and most of my friends to women, while I still refuse to give in to the beta life, and I don't know who to blame it on, them or on women. I mostly visit this subreddit and /pol/ on 4chan because here come the only people I can still relate to. Is there anyone here who can relate to this? Any thoughts on who's to blame and possible solutions to finding better friends or redpilling my brothers so I can spend more time with them?