Hello TRP.

I'm new to the red pill, like most of you I spent most of my life thinking that women are logical creatures, that what works on me should work on them. Of course, like most of you, I found out I was wrong.

The story starts with a girl that's in my legue which I had a crush on, We talked for hours daily for few weeks before I made my move. First mistake but I could've salvaged it if I didn't do the next bigger mistake. I told her how I feel. DON'T EVER UNDER ANY CONDITION TELL A GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER BEFORE YOU START GOING OUT.. EVER.

I told her that I have a crush on her, and that I like to go on a date.. BANG..friendzone. Just like that. The same exact scenario happened again and again with different girl all in my league and I didn't realize what's wrong til I found this place. I cut the conversations and SMSs in half, I let the girl do the 3 parts messages while I sent the 1/2 line ones. It felt strange since my fingers were urging to write more, my toungue was burning to say more.. but I fought it. I made my move on this girl that's out of my league via SMS, my exact SMS was the following :

ME : "Are you free thursday?"

HER : "Yes, Why ^_^?"

ME : "Cool, wanna go out with me?"

HER : "Are you asking me out on a date :P?"

ME : "Obviously"

HER : "Well, yeah sure what time :P?"

As you can see, plain and simple but effective, for comparison I'll recreate my messages of a girl I asked out before I took the pill (I lost the logs since it's been so long ago).

ME : "Heeeeey! I wanna tell you something msg me when you have time ;)!"

HER : "sure, I have time!!"

ME : "well, [name] I really like you, I had a crush on you for the past few weeks and I wanna know you better, what do you say? make a man's day and go out with me tomorrow?"

HER : "Sorry [name that's so unfair for you but I like someone and I'm waiting for him to make the move, and I feel it will make things weird between us, I really wanna stay friends though :/"

Of course asking someone over text is stupid in the first place, and those might be bad examples, but the point remains, plain and simple, once you start talking/writing more than she is talking/writing you already lost your chance.

Hope it saves someone a cringy memory.