Seriously, what do you do to prevent oneitis? I'm thinking too much about her and I know that my thinking is irrational and an utter waste of time and my resources. I need some daily creeds or other strategies to regain composure, and bring her down from the pedestal so I can regain perspective and not make a fool of myself (too late).

For the longest time I've been able to maintain indifference towards women because for one reason or another I was able to avoid letting women in too close. But ever since February I've been talking, sometimes flirting with this potential unicorn. Somehow, I let her slip behind my inate defenses.

Without a doubt, she is in control of our text situation. I find myself always thinking about her and waiting for the next time we meet or receive any communication from her. I feel like a wreck, I can't focus on work, and I feel pathetic. I hate to say it, but I lost 'frame' lol.

How did I let it get this bad? How did I not catch myself simping?