Find it hard to be a mgtow and not having some bad nihilistic moments

PLUTOKRAT · 2017-06-08T10:30:54+00:00

Because of social and peer pressure? Or because you feel the need to fuck girls (if the latter, just pay someone).

Anyhow, remember that ovaries expire, our testicles don't... We can have kids even if we are old... So we need to use this biological fact in our advantage...

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-06-08T12:19:52+00:00

Yeah...it passes and there are great moments of freedom...lots of moments of freedom.

letsriseup · 2017-06-08T13:15:02+00:00

This is a normal feeling.

Sounds like you're still in some anger phase as you still have a conflict of wanting to change the world.

I've simply stopped caring so I just get clear on what I want and take care of my bubble of influence (health, wealth, etc.).

I've made peace with the fact that I don't care if I die and nobody knows or remembers me. It doesn't mean it wouldn't be cool to accomplish something big, but not giving a chit has opened up my mind to focus on executing the process of improvement rather than worrying about chit I can't control.

I simply don't care, but I'll do the steps towards my goals. Whatever happens happens after that.

2017-06-08T14:18:28+00:00

You have your bad days and good days. On bad days make sure you have an abundant amount of hobbies and things to do to keep a leveled head. Acceptance is key.

Mac290 · 2017-06-08T14:36:22+00:00

Look for your inner peace. Realize that you have very little control over most things and accept it. You want the world to burn as some sort of cosmic 'payback', but what good does that do you? Relax and focus on the good things.

2017-06-08T17:18:45+00:00

Nah, man. You're just being human. Just this morning I felt like slamming on my brakes because a chick was riding my ass even though there were 3 other left lanes open. I do boxing. Really helps me let my rage out.

2017-06-08T18:23:04+00:00

There's nothing new under the sun.

NomadicAnomaly · 2017-06-08T20:08:22+00:00

In my opinion, that's normal. Perhaps the world/society does need a "burn" in order to get down to a reasonable, healthy level.

As the quote goes, it's no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.

poison-fang-blade · 2017-06-08T20:09:20+00:00

I kinda want to see the world get fucked but I also want my videogames so the collapse can wait until I die.

2017-06-08T22:33:35+00:00

I think we all get the impulse. But to my thinking, nihilism is often a failure to convert to selfishness in a timely fashion.

Once we choose selfishness, life gets optimistic very quickly! The possibilities for building a pleasurable life are endless.

NotAlwaysAppropriate · 2017-06-09T02:57:36+00:00

I feel the same way. I have nothing to add as advice beyond what's been said, but maybe it helps to know you're not alone.

Deadpanpancakes · 2017-06-09T03:59:24+00:00

Well considering that the traditional things that give life meaning are now absent, I'd say its normal. Women and children were a huge part of life. Then theres career.. for a lot of young people, even that is a hard thing to grab onto considering the job opportunities out there.

If you've decided to go mgtow, you've got to fill your life with meaning elsewhere. Try new things and have a hobby. Find some like-minded friends who are on the same path. Life is full of wonders if you take women out of the equation. Travel, do things, live your life.

Also, you have to understand that women are the way they are because the survival of our species demands it. It isnt evil, it isnt some conspiracy against men. It just simply is. Dont be angry about it. If you're angry, maybe you arent fully informed about the nature of women, men, and humanity. Maybe do a bit more research. If your understanding of what women are is the collection of thoughts and ideas on this subreddit, you're going to have a very angry view of what mgtow is; so its beneficial to do some research.

darkrood · 2017-06-09T06:06:41+00:00

It just means: You have no meaningful mission for yourself.

Title	Find it hard to be a mgtow and not having some bad nihilistic moments
Author	ZCnegan
Upvotes	30
Comments	37
Date	June 8, 2017 10:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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