Back in High School (senior year is when these things happened) I was pretty much shocked by this one girl and what she said to me. A little backstory (sorry): I had had a crush on this girl for pretty much all of high school, and I was shy and never quite asked her out, as I feared it would ruin what was a pretty strong friendship, so no, I am NOT salty or upset (let's get that out of the way). She was always in a relationship, with about a 1-week window between breakups, and again I was to shy to say anything so oh well. Here's the thing, she knew I low-key had feeling for her and played around with the idea, saying stuff like "I would totally date you...if we weren't friends" and "You're such an amazing guy, some girl is gonna be the luckiest girl in the world when she finds you" etc. While I was done being hurt on the low I still remained sort of friends with her (we would play sports mostly and hang out). I then turned my attention to doing whatever I wanted and long story short [story on my profile (https://redd.it/7ufp70 )(https://redd.it/7vx9gu)] I got a blowjob from some class thot. I also changed a bit from my usual self and started hanging out with some bros (who tbh I probably shouldn't have) and started listening to rap music, being more spontaneous, in short, I began not giving a damn.
So here's the shocker: on Prom night, it was just her and I, on the balcony of this place, and she came out of nowhere and began critizing my choices saying she was dissapointed with my choice (of that one thot) and how she didn't like how I had changed, I said I didnt see any of you nice girls on high horse moving my way, whats the problem, I did what I wanted, and she said (get ready) she was gonna (I can't make this up) "SAVE ME FOR LATER". Are you kidding me? I was too shocked to react, but I just walked away. Basically, I was just told I was her bitch all along, that despite (apparently) having SOME sort of interest in me she would never let me know, and despite keeping me at bay in terms of intimacy she somehow OWNED me to criticize my life choices once I stopped kowtowing to her. I was as worthy as some leftover Chinese food that hadn't expired yet that you "save for later" and despite me having no contract, legal or social I had an apparent obligation to live my life in a way that would please her, and this really had me upset. Cue "You don't own me- Grace, G-Eazy" "Yp This, gentlemen, is one of several reasons why I've gone MGTOW, nobody owns me, and nobody can judge me unless they are my father or mother (though i'll probably listen to someone who clearly gives a damn, which she did not.) Thanks for reading, I really needed to get this off my chest.
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It is almost as if we (men) are their pawns on a chess board, and nothing more: sometimes I wonder if Women are capable of love, or only capable of cold calculation as they ironically objectify those who they resent for "objectification".
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