A danger of being a "PUA", on the otherside....a health and safety warning

detachedbymarriage · 2016-05-09T22:53:09+00:00

You are hamstering(gerbeling) this.

Some guys really have no natural game. None at all. I see nothing wrong with using a little pua when you are still learning how to approach women.

A man's primary goal should be to self improve, get to a point in life where you like who you are. If you need a little lesson in game, so be it. But It should never become your bread and butter.

PUA should be used a tool like anything else learned in the manosphere. Get what you need and move on to the next.

Il128 · 2016-05-09T22:59:41+00:00

I pump and dump a couple times a month. When the "I can't do this" pops up I stop.

I have two plates (was three, let one go) and I get housework and my grocery shopping done and some booty.

You might want to get used to this because women are incapable of loving.

Battle-Scars · 2016-05-09T23:03:01+00:00

Women are only in love with what you represent, never who you are.

And props to your Mom for getting a medal winner before you. That's some funny shit...

MentORPHEUS · 2016-05-10T01:49:21+00:00

Rule zero: stay on topic. What's the application to sexual strategy here?

theBreadSultan · 2016-05-09T22:52:34+00:00

"It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me." Being loved for "who you are" is for feel good bullshit on the Lifetime channel. Your game IS who you are.

insickness · 2016-05-09T22:57:47+00:00

The same could be said if you are really good looking or wealthy. Is it me or my looks/wealth?

I don't disagree with you about the perils of gaming. It can become vapid. You chase that validation high of making conquests. It's impossible to not notice the outcome of your actions and start focusing on it rather than staying internally validated.

But how do you stay internally validated? Become a monk. Live an ascetic life up on a mountain. But that's not really living.

Use pickup to get you what you want. But make your goals clear and be ready to walk away, at least temporarily, if you notice it having a net negative effect on your life.

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-10T02:05:31+00:00

Did you try to say "~~External validation~~pick up is a drug, there is no harm in using it when it suits you but overdo it and you will get addicted and get screwed"?

Title	A danger of being a "PUA", on the otherside....a health and safety warning
Author	theBreadSultan
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	May 9, 2016 10:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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