For anyone doing fwb

electroloop · 2020-08-11T20:03:02+00:00

Use an alias and a burner number. Never give them your address. Never agree to overnights/sleepovers. Never reach out to them first, and quickly put them in their place if they disrespect you.

We are queens who know we are worth more than being someone’s personal pocket pussy. Buy a hitachi wand for $79.99 and save yourself the headache.

Ps: the magic wand guarantees you an orgasm.

Kimpractical · 2020-08-11T20:07:36+00:00

Just beware that if you have sex with him, the friends with benefits will NOT include the friends part. He will not be friends with you. It will literally just be sex for him. The situation will most likely end up being no quality time spent together that doesn’t include sex. Don’t get your hopes up. There will be no “hanging out”, no going to the movies together, no walks in the park together, no hand holding, no romantic weekend getaways. Maybe there will be some Netflix and chill, but with a focus on the “chill” part. Most women have a hard time separating emotions and sex, so thats why we don’t recommend FWB. Just remember to keep your expectations low... if you have sex with him without a commitment, there’s a 99.99% chance that it will never go anywhere further than that and he will just have sex with you until he meets the next fuck buddy, and you will he dumped. You also put yourself at risk for him not respecting you, your body, or your boundaries and it could be a potentially dangerous situation. A lot of women here will tell you that they’ve been violated, abused and taken advantage of by an FWB. So be please careful!!!

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-11T20:14:28+00:00

So this post, plus your post earlier today about still agreeing to meet men even when they're an hour late for a date with no notice....tells me that you haven't read the FDS handbook.

RamenUndergraduate · 2020-08-11T20:45:05+00:00

Set strong boundaries. Both of you get tested. Get a google #.

Make sure you guys are ONLY texting about meeting up for sex. If he starts talking to you about his hopes and dreams etc cut it short... tell him to go talk to his friends about that lol. In the long run they want to lure you in emotionally so they can have access to your body for YEARS.

That's why so many women are left bamboozled when they find out there fwb is settling down or getting married. These men will take the best years of your life If you let them lol. It's sad but true. Like another user said fwb are not your friends and they're NOT potential love interest keep dating around.

Levelupmama · 2020-08-11T21:30:52+00:00

With trembling fingers, I unmatched lol he was so fine too

Levelupmama · 2020-08-12T09:28:14+00:00

Some guy just DMd me telling me that no husband would want to know I was fucking another man esp while we were dating or until we were official. Men are annoying af. I gotta follow the handbook to a t lol

Title	For anyone doing fwb
Author	Levelupmama
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	August 11, 2020 7:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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