Previous Thread about tonight

Fling comes to visit me once every 3 months. No strings attached sex. We usually spend 2-3 days together. Have fun and she leaves.

She drives 5 hours to see me tonight. I let her stay over and she decides to get drunk. I stay sober. She starts drinking heavily and asks me to go to the shop with her. Chameleon mode. I refuse. Check the previous thread on that.

So she comes back in a bit of a disrespectful mood. I ignore it. She seems fine afterward and starts drinking again. Well, heres what entailed after an hour of this.

She starts shouting over my dog to perform tricks being obnoxious and loud.

She starts poking my face aggressively and repeatedly. Won't stop.

I warned her to stop. She keeps doing it. I bat her hand out my face very gently. As she dug her finger really hard into my face. Her Fitbit which was barely on falls off of her. I put it on the desk but it drops onto the floor.

She freaks out. YOURE BEING AGGRESSIVE! YOUR MANHANDLING ME. YOURE BEING AGGRESSIVE!! I WAS ONLY TOUCHING YOUR FACE.

I remain calm. I tell her that she was being out of order and disrespectful. She picks her fitbit off the floor YOU BROKE IT YOU ARE SO AGGRESSIVE! YOU HAVE ASSAULTED ME!

She storms out grabs her shit. Slams the door. She leaves for her car and drives off. Bearing in mind shes just had 2 bottles of wine. I don't stop her.

In 20 minutes I hear her car again. I forgot to lock (my mistake) she comes in the house without saying anything. Slams my bedroom door.

I say, "What are you doing?"

Her: Well I obviously can't leave tonight so you take the bed or the sofa.

Me: No problem. You take the bedroom. I'll be on the sofa.

Me: Your behavior is on you tonight. You disrespected me. You are lucky that I am letting you stay. She ignores me.

So why am I being so nice? Well, I have cameras and audio set up. I'm not a total idiot. As soon as she started drinking I put them on. She's asleep. I look at the footage it shows her being the aggressor. I'm protected.

My Thoughts

  • Always keep video and audio in your house. Whenever they drink, keep it on. Protect yourself.

  • Women are rarely ever consistent. All capable of being absolutely batshit insane. Even the ones who don't exhibit signs at first. I've known her for 2 years. I know she gets a little loud when she drinks but holy fuck.

Likelihood she won't go to the police but I expect the unexpected.

I think I'll be going Monk for a while after this.

Update: She woke up apologetic as fuck. I got her to agree that I didn't assault her. Just a precaution. Then I told her to get the fuck out of my house. She bursts into tears. I send her packing.

For the feedback: I'm surprised some of you are thinking in terms of alpha/beta towards an possible allegation. That kind of thinking goes out of the window when faced with a possible allegation. Being courteous and nice amongst my video/audio evidence was absolutely crucial if I were to deal with another pathological liar. From someone who has dealt with a false allegation in the past, I have learned to remain calm and courteous amongst drunk women. They have too much power when it comes to the courts. So a big IDGAF if you think my behavior was beta. We need to stop tearing each other down as MGTOWs we aren't The Red Pill subreddit.

Anyways mistakes were made. I shouldn't have let her drink so much around my house. Alas I had CCTV and audio on my side but inviting women over is playing with fire. Monk mode activated for awhile.