Many men end up proposing to a woman not because they really love her, and have wonderful headache free times with them, but because they fear losing her to someone else.

The first thing you must know is the very basics. Even if everything seems perfect before marriage, you will without a doubt regret getting married. However, what if you have this strong mental block that says "I have known this woman for so long, I don't wan't to lose her!"

Well, first thing is that if you marry her there is a good chance you will lose her anyway. The difference is, if you lose her now you just lose her (plus maybe some stupid stuff like some salad she can make or some fun you have mixed with drama half the time). If you lose her after you marry her you will lose her, money, your soul, chunks of your health, your time with your kids (yeah I know, both of you don't want kids), etc.

Even if you are convinced that if you marry her she would never divorce you, she is not the type. A thought that the majority of men getting married are really convinced of. Ask yourself, how exactly is making the marriage move going to enhance your life? Really, what exactly does it do for you?

Marriage has been proven over and over to be a life ending ceremony for the man. Are you really about to destroy yourself because of the amount of time you know someone and you fear someone else having it?

Maybe she is putting massive pressure on your right now to get married. You are here reading this post because you heard about MGTOW. Many men here joined MGTOW after the horrors of one or two divorces, they were also smarter than everyone, they also believed they figured it all out and their situation was "unique".

Here is the final thought. If you dump her now the chances of you regretting it is very low. If you move forward, you will certainly regret it.

Remember, if you move forward you will have to play mind games with yourself every day to justify the pain and suffering you endure. Dump her now, never look back.

We have one life to live, time goes by fast, will you really mess the little life and chance we have over something that your gut is telling you already is nothing but hell? Will you mess your life up because it will make your family or her family happy?