TL DR: Religious sects teach men to devalue themselves and undermine their own biological imperative for the benefit of the whole. Modern marriage is a trap even among religious communities. Young and impressionable men can have their lives destroyed by them without ever knowing why.

Went to the gathering of a Christian Sect recently and felt the need to post my observations as a RP monk in reference to religion. Note, every religion is different and by no means am I bashing anyone's personal belief systems, principles, codes, etc. This is written in the hope of inspiring more religion based threads to help struggling BPers overcome their deep-seeted feminized indoctrination.

As a kid I used to attend this sect to appease my Grandfather but little did I know it gradually effeminized me into a beta cuck. Everything was about obedience to the organization under the "authority of God". Anyone who deviates from the standard is systemically shunned by everyone ingrained in the religion. To a newcomer it's no big deal they barely know the people but as a child raised in the institution it's a form of benign coercion. One that threatens alienation from own bloodline if they fail to adopt principles or reject aspects of the teachings.

Date a broad out of the community? Excommunicated until you dump her and apologize. Got caught watching porn? Excommunicated until you repent for your "filthy urges" and vow never to think about pussy until marriage. Openly kiss in public or go out on a date with a fellow member unchaperoned even as middle aged adults? Excommunicated until you regain your senses.

There became a pointwhere I was so indoctrinated with the belief that by being a submissive, self-sacrificing, throwpillow of a male I thought that by being an ultra polite guy women would flock to drop their panties at the idea of marriage because I was such a nice guy compared to "tatted, muscle-bound, meatheaded dudes with shit tons of game. Everytime a chick threw a shit-test my way and bitched me out I just turned the other cheek and apologize just like I was "supposed to do". No way they'd drop trou for these guys after I wrote ingratiating letters of how their hair sparkled in the sunlight and how their smiles make raging pitbulls calm without any intent on closing or building sexual tension, etc as a high schooler. Easy to tell how this ends.

Fast forward a few years after leaving the sect and finding TRP. My Grandfather's getting old and he asked me to return for a day. Little did I know I'd be blown away by an underlying sentiment of matriarchal resentment! The "men" behaved like spineless wimps going over and beyond to open doors for women who wouldn't even look them in the eye. To them these guys are like chicks with dicks and bulging wallets to buy dinner after meetings. A few of them bumped into me and didn't even take the effort to at least feign a feminine apology like it's common place to walk into and over men.

The men their hold absolutely zero frame in the fear or apprehension of losing favor with God so they bend over backwards to please their wives. A guy left his wife to take a leak for 3 minutes only to return to the comment "You should put a leash on him!", by some post wall blimp directed to the dude's wife!

A video clip segement that depicted "the perils of pride" featured a weak middle-aged male whining to his wife about being criticized in the community and the wife was cold, domineering, and looked like she wanted to smack the shit out of him for confiding in her instead of manning up and baring his own burdens.

The reoccuring themes of obedience to God and staying loyal to marriage partners in the face of misery were central points despite the fact that the women bear 100% of the power intergender relationships. The men have absolutely no sexual outlet since they're discouraged from watching porn, fapping, viewing media with scantily clad women, or even looking at a non-member HB8+ sexually since it's considered "fornication of the heart" the only way these pitiful excuse for men can get off is through their starfish, sex depriving wives.

The wives have no incentive to sleep with them because the option to walk away is no longer in the mens' hands under code and contract. Dread can't work for fear of excommunication. Game can't work because sex outside of marriage is grounds for excommunication as well so it's no viable threat. Biting the bullet and saying "fuck it" and walking away seems like the most sensible choice but as stated before when one's whole bloodline is born into that midset it leads to undesirable complications.

Smart men throw away college opportunities to be full-time servants of the sect completely dependant on donations for food, clothing, and shelter without a pot to piss in. If they violate any principles they'll find themselves dissociated and either on the street or their parent's house with socially crippling belief systems ingrained. For many, marriage is held and considered to be a genuinely lifetime commitment/sentence with no way out until death once the wife realizes she wields all the power in the relationship. Leaving the men a spineless cross between children and the perfect submissive beta cuck.

Religion aside, these are the restrictions, constraints, and barriers that many BPers experience especially when indoctrinated by religion. Although I was fortunate enough to escape they're literally millions who won't have the same fortune until it's too late. Hopefully this opens up more discussion in reference to TRP and religious conditioning. It's a harsh life for the unlearned.