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[–]deathmetalfan615 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i used to be someone who cared only about female validation and when i eventually got it all they did was fucking use me. when i took the red pill i woke up to the truth about women and how toxic they truly are. going my own way was the best decision i ever made.
[–]SgtMGTOW5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My answer is the same everytime this is asked.
Waaaay more money in my account. No more taking her out 2-3 times a week. No more flowers. No more tickets for the play or concerts. Fuck all that noise.
If I was still in a relationship I would not be out of debt for another 3 years at least. With the amount I am able to save now I will be out of debt in 10 months.
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Not long enough
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[–]HIGHLORDOFSHITSTAINS7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If i had a fuckin time machine.. I'd go back and cock punch myself.
[–]VGVOW5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Zero Fucks Given means that I am a happy man for the first time ever.
[–]VGVOW1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Common for us old heads... I was already MGTOW and didn't know it. I came across it two years ago and it was like "finally someone else gets it".
Also, keep in mind that MGTOWs vary and all men in this are at different levels. If you're super smart you can still get ass and whatnot... some choose monk. I get tail when I want but I am always honest about what I really want and the women know what I am about. When they try to "change" me they are gone.
Keep us posted on how you are doing.
BTW I was in red pill rage for a while and it's natural at first. I was married from 18-34 and first couple GFs after that were typical women. 37 yo airline pilot living life for me for the first time and loving it!
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The difference is like night and day for me. MGTOW has allowed me to live so much more efficiently and to celebrate everything about the single life. I feel like I'm experiencing the world without a bag over my head anymore. Blue pill me lived in a dreamworld that proved to be a bit of a nightmare honestly.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure, hope I can help. When I was blue-pilled, women were a time and money sink for sure, but that pales in comparison to the emotional and spiritual sink. I'd be devastated by being cheated on or ghosted, or when an ex would sleep with my close friends. There were painful blows, but the prevailing sense of melancholy, loneliness, and depression were awful. Too many sleepless nights for sure. Too much happiness and peace of mind gone down the drain. With MGTOW though, I can see why all that happened and I can see that is was unnecessary to put myself through that. I don't have to think about women anymore, because there is no promised land of a devoted, lifelong love. It's a lie I was told that I eventually started telling myself.
Maybe the critics are right and I really am just a dud beta who can't keep a woman because I don't have much to offer. But, whatever the case, MGTOW works and doesn't cost me anything.
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Had severe depression and traumas caused from a female sociopath, at the moment I'm feeling fine, still damaged still working on myself but definitely better than what I have turned into after that, I love MGTOW
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Made me fall in love by acting in a specific way, then started controlling and abusing me , as the time passed, more and more, she wanted to make me not do things that I enjoyed , she verbally abused me, made fun of some of my deseases,, made false accusations, threatened to say lies about me to my family, manipulate me, ghosted me on some occasions , only to come in touch when she needed something from me, she used me in many ways, all of these while I was hardly in love with her, and I couldn't even understand why she suddenly started acting in such a way, at first she faked that she cared about me, but later she completely changed as I already write, also in the past she broke up before some major exams specifically so I would not be able to get into the first university of my choice, it was the first time I was in love, I was propagandized since I was a kid about how I should treat and respect women and she made me be obsessed about her,,she always made it seem like everything was my fault and made me suffer just so she can get away with things, when she realised that I was attached and had anxiety, I couldn't even control myself. All of that left me with a terrible depression and brain damage. She turned me into a monster, and didn't even have any particular reason rather than that she laughed about it.
[–]cheesymold3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Work on my hobby's. Put male's before females now. Used to be reverse but after dealing with unload hoes for long enough I only give mine where it's due. I no longer feel the need to impress a women and make her happy. I care about my happiness first and foremost. I generally don't care to date unless I feel like getting laid but I find port an easier outlet and back to doing what I want.
[–]cheesymold0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
never tried. wouldnt judge!
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For me, it is same. I knew something was wrong with relationships and couldn't be in one. I thought that no girl would want to be with me. There is always a better man than me, girls will go to him, so why bother. Reason for this thinking was being overweight up until puberty, and after puberty going to gym and losing 10 kilograms shown me the results of being noticed more (for perspective I was around 185 cm while weighing 78 kg after losing weight).
Then I found The Red Pill. It gave me why girls would go to other guys in a biologic sense and what to do to be desired by girls. MGTOW gave me the reasons to not to meddle with girls more than professional or friend level.
So yeah, before MGTOW I knew that I'd be left alone, after MGTOW I choose to be alone.
[–]oldmanlogan762 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ironically i'm getting more pussy now. Oh and i have a new career.
MGTOW is the only way for men to find peace in society today. This is how it affected me. Feel free to skip the block text.
I have autism. 21. High functioning and I'm indistinguishable from society; I'm different nonetheless. MGTOW has taught me a lot about masculinity and life's trials. Where do I fit in society? How can I find a purpose in a universe that has none? Why did my ex cheat on me? When does a young man learn to accept his father's death? All of these questions have been answered through MGTOW. Grew up in a matriarchy of women, even my father was a cross-dresser. Only son in the family. The female need to tame the wild boy is higher than ever now that I'm a fully blown testosterone freak. I resent most of the women in my family because they act as if they control everything. They are at an impasse with me because nobody controls me. I'm stubborn like my father was. In fact, I believe they are intimidated by me and my ego.
I have autism. 21. High functioning and I'm indistinguishable from society; I'm different nonetheless. MGTOW has taught me a lot about masculinity and life's trials. Where do I fit in society? How can I find a purpose in a universe that has none? Why did my ex cheat on me? When does a young man learn to accept his father's death? All of these questions have been answered through MGTOW.
Grew up in a matriarchy of women, even my father was a cross-dresser. Only son in the family. The female need to tame the wild boy is higher than ever now that I'm a fully blown testosterone freak. I resent most of the women in my family because they act as if they control everything. They are at an impasse with me because nobody controls me. I'm stubborn like my father was. In fact, I believe they are intimidated by me and my ego.
/the problem/
Men need ego and a healthy self-esteem. Otherwise, we have no purpose or drive.
You aren't supposed to be self-centered though! You are supposed to care about your family, your job, your wife, this, and that, on top of everything else; where is the time for the man anymore? Where is the value that men once held in our time, presence, and appearance? The pride we once had for ourselves has evaporated and that's where the problem resides.
The burdens we once carried were our self-imposed burdens. We took them with pride. We men always faced our trials with grit and patience. But patience and grit come with slow development of the man. These responsibilities have been simply handed to us while we have no confidence or direction. Children, debt, family, all of it. The modern, feminized, men lack the gall to stand and say, 'Fuck the odds, I'm a man; I can do it'.
/the fix/
Here's what we need to do as men, and perhaps as a community: practice your self image. All the time. Do it for your sake alone. Acknowledge your value as a man and as a person. Hold your actions accountable, and most importantly, you are a man. The world is built on men's shoulders. do you fucking understand?
Do you believe you're a towering testosterone behemoth? Good. Do you know you're not? Even better. Because merely thinking about our goals manifests opportunity. Men can do this. Not because we are objectively superior to women, not at all. Men simply run the world because they understand how powerful it is to just believe in one's abilities. Everything falls into place afterwards.
TL;DR Men are powered by ego; practice it even if you don't believe it. Our thoughts manifest what we receive in life. Never stop building yourself up because life and people will tear you down. inevitable. Men have been taught to stunt our ego because it's abrasive. Don't take words personally, ever.
[–]black6511 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wish I'd known about MGTOW much earlier but it's never too late to use it's principals to better yourself. Work with quite a few female co-workers and it's such a liberating thing to ignore 99% of what they say that isn't directly related to my job. Get more work done and enjoy not being pulled into the daily drama and gossip. A few have expressed interest in meeting outside of work but I've always managed to deflect these by saying I had previous plans. Work is so hassle free now.
Nofapper but its so blue pill I just quit
[–]nigelh0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought it was just me and now I know it isn't.
[–]Talkytalktalk0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It hasn't really. I had all these ideas before I found the online stuff.
I learned I'm not alone and not crazy.
[–]casra8880 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I figured this out at a very early age. As such, I've tried to talk my friends out of relationships with unfeeling parasites. I've never been able to. They've run for bloodsuckers to bloodsuckers gleefully and piss and moan how much they love and need the last one who cleaned them out. I've let women live with me but kept my money separate and safe! I've let them know that if they ever want to leave they are absolutely free to do so and that if they show disrespectful or lying behavior I will remove them from my life. I sat down and told the last one , "I warned you too many times, pack up and leave. It's over. I found someone much better. I will never speak to you again." She went home to mommy. Never compromise! Never give an inch! All my friends paid through the the ass for the wretched vampires while I never paid a penny. Many of my friends resented me and even hated me for not falling for the same con games. F them! I stood up for myself! They are cowards who are actually angry that I am an example of someone who did not allow themselves to be enslaved.
[–]casra8880 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok, had one buddy, John the Idiot. Hooked up with a fat ugly dependapotomus. We were 24, she was 22. She was still living with mommy and daddy. No job, no education, whole family were con artists living off welfare. REDFLAGS! But, John the Idiot bought into how incredible and smart she is! Let's call her, Becky the Retard. 2 weeks in and he goes over in the dead of night and moves her out to our place we all shared. He says that she told him her family beats on her and works her like a slave and wont let her move out, get a job, or go to school. We told him, get her fat ass out of here! "No, I love her and i need her." Oh fuck. We hoped he'd wake up. 3 months later, she's still a fat, lazy and stupid dependapotomus sucking his wallet dry. We have a house meeting and explain she's worthless and needs to go NOW! He moves her back to HIS moms with him. A month later moves her to an apartment with him. At that point, she demands he never speak to us, his friends who he grew up with and his little brother again. He ghosts us. For ten years. Even his little brother. So, 10 years go by, he knocked her up twice, she's still fat, ugly and stupid and a con artist. He slaves away all day to give her money which she doles out to her con artist family of fuckups. We explain how divorce lawyers work. No, no. I have to stay. I gotta do whatever it takes to make her happy. He actually angry at me because I didnt fuck up. I bang whatever chick I want, I have total freedom, no kids, a job I enjoy making good money. He and a number of others have gotten very angry because I didn't make the same horrible mistakes as them. Misery LOVES company and HATES happy. I'd be here all day explaining his utterly insane life. The she-beast turned his 2 daughters against him, moved in her scumbag drugaddicted boyfriend into their home and made John the Idiot sleep on the couch while they slept and banged in bed, made a show of handing his wallet to her boyfriend to empty, oh fuck it just went on and on. Through it all, he just could not accept that I wasnt suffering too and it pissed him off. Nothing enrages an impotent man more then a strong man.
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