What's the big deal with single mothers

Benny757 · 2017-03-10T23:54:38+00:00

You are talking about your own mom. In general, moms love their kids. So, she loves you. That's good.

Now, you go and find a single mom of a bad boy's kid. You date her, and marry her. You pay for and raise somebody else's kid. You keep it together, the kid graduates, goes to college (which you helped pay for.) Empty nest, she now wants bad boy. You give her permanent alimony, and half of all property. The kid will not love you. The kid will be out of your life.

Welcome to western society.

Don't believe me? Go sacrifice your life to one. And welcome back into the plantation. You will wear your shackles and do as you are told. Else you get the hose again. Report back.

801735 · 2017-03-10T23:42:19+00:00

What's the big deal with single mothers

The(ir) deal is there is no deal.

thingseverybodylove · 2017-03-10T23:44:41+00:00

We don't hate single mothers, we have huge respect for them considering they raise their children by themselves. However, we hate those single mothers who doesn't have the composure to stay at home without fucking every man they found online. People, men or women, have to understand that when they are past a certain age, or a certain life stage, their roles are different and they have different responsibilities. I can understand a young girl without children, going out and have some fun, but not if she has a child, as it will set a bad example, not just for her child, but to other single mothers.

justareflektorr · 2017-03-11T00:31:01+00:00

People forget single mothers where not tolerated by society at all throughout history, only for the last ~50 years has this been acceptable, and in many places like china still is frowned upon and your social status is equal to that of a prostitute there if you are a single mother. Why has this changed? Simple answer is single mothers like all women and children are leeches on the society and only recently have we become so prosperous to tolerate such biologically inclined foolishness withouth social catastrophe accuring.

boringcarpets · 2017-03-11T00:01:29+00:00

No, it's disdain for single mothers who freely got knocked up by chad and expect beta bux to pay, it's disdain for the promotion of this as something 'good' or an achievement, disdain for the shaming language used to coerce men into raising someone else's children, it's disdain for a system that promotes and supports and encourages all of it

Morb357 · 2017-03-11T00:40:03+00:00

How did she treat the man who helped make you? Did she cheat on him? Did she makeup false abuse charges? Did she just get bored and leave him? What is the truth behind this and you may have you answer. Behind most single mothers is a man who got shit on. Fuck em.

Lexeklock · 2017-03-10T23:51:31+00:00

For me there are 2 types of single mothers :

Those who got pregnant too young because they were "just having fun" or too drunk to think about the consequences...They kept the child because they thought they could chain an Alpha that turned out to be a pretty face with no future prospect.
Those who were married, had kids, got a divorce and took the kids.

The first one is easy to know why its hated : the girl/woman have no idea how the real world works, since she clearly either wasnt responsible enough, or wasnt honest enough , and so she will raise her children to be just like her or worse.

The second one tends to be hated because a man will ask himself this : if she divorce raped the last guy who had kids with her, what will stop her from doing the same to me ??

A divorced single mom could do some effort for her kids and all, but its not about the kids when you are asking why we hate her, its because if you happen to be the guy who will follow up, she will either do the same to you as she did to the last guy, or her kids will be priority n1 and you'll be just a financial support instead of getting an equal shared relationship.

Lets also not forget that many studies have shown that kids need both their parents to grow up in a perfect way and that kids of single parents ( single moms or single dads ) tend to perform less in school, be more agressive, end up with more depressions, get to prison more often and commit more crimes compared to kids raised in a normal family.

All in all, once you take the kids out of the equation, you always end up with...if she did something bad to the last guy, nothing is stoping her from doing it to me and that is why the hate for single moms.

Mars8 · 2017-03-11T00:59:56+00:00

We don't hate single mothers, a lot of them do a great job (not all of them). But I would not want to date one, first off raising some other guys kid is a major cuck, it's a reminder that she only chose you because her first option rejected her. Second, the kid is not yours and they're not blood, so they're always going to seem like strangers. Third, the baby daddy is always going to be in the picture and she may even leave you to go back to him, I mean she had strong enough feelings to risk having a kid with him.

Most guys won't date a chick whose been with a lot of dudes let alone a chick who had a kid with one of them.

After you become a single mother you only have two options, lower your standards dramatically or raise the kid/s by yourself.

I know quite a few chick's that got pregnant in their late teens and are constantly dating fat, bald dudes with low self esteem and a crappy/steady job.

Those guys are desperate so they will take anything.

Migtaosammich · 2017-03-11T04:21:03+00:00

This pretty much sums it up.

Paladin2903 · 2017-03-11T06:47:46+00:00

Your case sounds like the exception, my friend, not the rule. I'm not going to go over the many reasons why single mothers aren't liked very much by MGTOW, because many of the posters already outlined this, but I will say this.....just watch ONE episode of that MTV show "Teen Mom," and you'll realize why we want nothing to do with single moms.

Single moms are generally just women who are toxic and make HORRIBLE life decisions. Again, not saying every single case, but it definitely applies to most cases. This, however, is a truth that the matrix will deny, and doesn't want men to know.

mgtow4lifefellas · 2017-03-11T08:20:09+00:00

Single-mothers are like cancer. Nobody wants it. Ever heard somebody say ''Oh boy, can't wait to date a post-wall single-mother.''? or ''I really hope I get cancer tomorrow.''

PabloEscoba · 2017-03-11T12:19:06+00:00

Nothing is stopping you if you want to be with a single momther. If that is what u are looking for , all the best.

BroJack22 · 2017-03-11T14:34:49+00:00

Anecdotal experiences don't refute trends.

Title	What's the big deal with single mothers
Author	vaultboi111
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Comments	15
Date	March 10, 2017 11:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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