Why testing your confidence is crucial

Black-Pill · 2016-07-13T20:04:24+00:00

What???

For Fucks sake.... the next thing you're gonna' tell me is to play Pokeman Go down in the 'Hood wearing a T-Shirt that says Hug Me I'm a Cop , right?

What's the matter with you.... you got The Zika^TM or something?

Brad_Da_Rad · 2016-07-13T19:50:52+00:00

Wearing ill-fitting clothes places you in an ill-fitting mindset, which isn't the ideal way to test for confidence.

But if you did dress appropriately, held your head up high, kept your chest out and your eyes up and forward, that would be a confidence tester. As your presenting yourself in a manner that demands respect unlike the latter.

rproller · 2016-07-13T20:17:45+00:00

When Cecelia is done shaking your confidence daily, perhaps you could look into real confidence-building activities like, you know, working out. I fail to see how dressing wth mediocre style does this for you.

[deleted] · 2016-07-14T08:34:18+00:00

Confidence is earned and you'll know when you have it.

BloodRedAlert · 2016-07-19T03:37:02+00:00

This isn't confidence testing, brotha. It is more of "getting-comfortable-with-uncomfortable" situation which is something I have no idea if it's a good practice or a bad practice. But I do this sometimes, only a little more subtle like wearing funny footwears on public or anything actually that makes me a bit uncomfortable at myself. Since I was a mister nice guy, I wasn't really used to judgements so it really helped.

I don't know bout others tho. What do you guys think?

ecosci · 2016-07-13T19:44:26+00:00

Dont break eye contact she will melt if you do it right, practice at it dont ever stare, its the quickest way to the vag this is very true so become natural at making the connection to her soul it works like a charm.

trippinallday · 2016-07-14T00:11:02+00:00

What does purposely inducing a specific, easily avoidable insecurity accomplish? If you walked around covered in toilet water and smelling like shit no doubt everyone would be insecure to some degree or another, but that doesn't mean it'll help you. Dress nice and don't worry.

The_BitterTruth · 2016-07-14T00:15:39+00:00

I don't think your point is "Test your confidence" as much as "Be introspective". You can be introspective in any situation, but you don't necessarily need to "test" yourself to be introspective.

Of course it's good to do things outside of your comfort zone, but you don't need to make yourself look like an ass in the process.

[deleted] · 2016-07-13T19:53:21+00:00

I had this happen to me last night. I've been improving my confidence for almost a year now but there are some times where I struggle still. It's really important to be aware of it though, that's the only way to correct mistakes.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-07-13T22:07:38+00:00

But someone who dresses normally in those clothes wouldn't give a shit. You did something that you decided you were uncomfortable with. Mind over mind.

Title	Why testing your confidence is crucial
Author	chasethenews
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Comments	11
Date	July 13, 2016 7:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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