Is anyone not getting married because of your mom?

Jedibenuk · 2017-02-01T22:20:25+00:00

Pro tip: Love your father, respect your father, do not become your father. Your father is the living breathing embodiment of society crushing men. He has children that I am sure he loves with a woman who loves nothing. You cannot imagine the internal struggle he must live through every single day. Stay away from marriage and do not have kids.

Ximkai · 2017-02-01T23:44:05+00:00

I remember the exact day my attitudes and childhood views of my mother were irrevocably changed. A month earlier she won a class action lawsuit against a diet company who's product nearly killed her. Her portion after all the fees was 250k, more money than my family has ever seen at one point in time. (This will be important later).

For the first 13 years of my life I lived in a small 2 bedroom apartment with my parents and half brother and sister. My parents had been saving with their meager income for years and when I was 6 we bought a country home by a nearby lake, something my dad had dreamed about since he was a child. This was before the lawsuit ever happened, they bought the land with their own money. When I was around 13 we finally had the money to build our own house on this land and every weekend we would go there and do a little something to the house.

On this day in question, it was my job to put caulking over the nail holes on the base boards around the house. I was doing my job as well as any bored kid could, when for no reason my mom grabbed me by the scruff and took me to a back room. She physically beat me, not spankings I've had plenty of those before, she BEAT me and threw me through a window. Her reason? "I wasn't caulking good enough for her."

The next year was probably the worst year of my childhood. You see, my mom never wanted to live in the country to begin with. She never said anything until we actually moved into the house. She decided after owning this land for years and building the house, now would be a good time to express her wants. She did so by having nightly fights with my father. I remember having to clean up the house daily from her throwing some glass across the house, or slamming a door so hard that decorations would fall of the walls and break.

Eventually my mom gave my dad the ultimatum. She had the money, she was going to buy a house in the city and live it up, he could come with or they could split. We kept the property in the country, but my dad did come with us for a while.

Now, you don't have to be a genius to know that 250k gets used up pretty quickly when you buy a home that costs twice that in the city. Mom had pissed through our small fortune within a year, my dad of course had to pick up the slack, while my mom continued to spend money on frivolous bullshit with no sign of slowing down. My dad's job started to have him travel alot ally and would pay him a premium for doing work away from home, sometimes making up to 10k a month for it.... that money would be spent before he got off the plane.

My mom single handedly broke my family apart, my dad left to live in the country. He left me with her. I spent the next many years hearing all kinds of shit talk about what kind of scum my father was, how all men are, how I am simply because I'm a man. My mom would try to brainwash me by telling me my father would beat her, that he was always the aggressor in the fights, it was all his fault. I guess she never realized that I was in the fucking room when they would fight, I saw who she was with my own eyes. My father isn't perfect, but he's not a monster either. My mother, a cunt in every way imaginable.

I will never get married because my mother has shown me what women truly are. How manipulative they are, and how they have this ability to rewrite history in their minds and actually start to believe the shit they say. Your woman may not be this extreme, but I promise you, she has it in her.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2017-02-01T19:37:14+00:00

I'm not getting married again because I'm divorced.

funinsun10 · 2017-02-01T23:54:37+00:00

All women go into this manic depressed state of mind for a few hours every week, some more than others. I think it has something to do with how their hormones affect their brain. My mom definitely is bi polar and knew she has problems but I always thought my aunt was normal until I stayed the summer in her basement and saw how she treated her husband... Its amazing how manipulative every woman is.. Chameleon animals that are looking for a meal.. And after they've eaten you dry.. Off to the next meal as though you should be grateful they ate you and blessed you with their time... How is this possible.. Vaginas.. Thats it... Vaginas... Never trust anything that bleeds 4 days straight and don't die!

sadbasturd99 · 2017-02-01T18:52:00+00:00

My parents had other problems. My mother was a yeller. She would yell a lot. If and when I date women, they are submissive and fun and easygoing. Anyone who is loud turns me off immediately and forever.

Mac290 · 2017-02-01T20:10:13+00:00

Anyone can be polluted by bitter friends. It's just that one gender would stop being friends with them, while the other will be swayed by them.

gods_bones · 2017-02-01T21:39:16+00:00

My mom does play into it a little bit, but she is so unimportant to me that she barely even factors into any of my thoughts. Its the monster she raised that really opened my eyes to the nature of women: my sister. My mom blatantly played favorites with her children, and as a male I always got the short end of the stick. I often got threats of being disowned, always the target of her lectures, and screaming and beatings. For the most part I thought it was because she hated my father for the divorce and wanted to punish me for being male, but one of my cousins (a girl whom I am very close to) has an alternative theory that basically says I never stood a chance because my sister was female and firstborn so she already fulfilled all of my mom's maternal needs before I was even born.

My sister is a narcissistic sociopath just like all the girls of today, and her big mistake was showing us her true nature without ever bothering to hide her intentions to be a burden and a plague to all logical and rational human beings. She never thought to wear a mask, and is only now trying to hide her true nature with all this "ohhhhh I think I'm bipolar, why won't anyone help me?" BULLSHIT, but we both know she is completely aware of what she is doing and what outcome she wants to create from her disgusting behavior and attitude. So I have completely distanced myself from my family and I already know that if I were ever stupid enough to have a child, its already predestined I would get stuck with a girl and she would turn out to be EXACTLY the type of demonic entity my sister is.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-02-01T22:17:04+00:00

My mom used to scream her unholy head off at my hard working dad until he dropped dead of a sudden heart attack in his early 50's and she never stopped screaming. You better believe she had a huge influence on me not wanting to be in that same hell trap that killed him.

2017-02-01T20:12:09+00:00

Not going to trash my mom here, but, yes.

MRA-automatron-2kb · 2017-02-01T21:14:33+00:00

My ant was abusive to her husband and that scared and scarred me.

SimZz164 · 2017-02-02T03:53:50+00:00

My own mother always favorited my sister, who was a cunt. She would break something and start drama, and then tell my mother it was my fault. So I was always getting punished for her shit. Didn't help me. The last nails on the coffin tho was 2 of my ex-gfs who left me for a guy who had something I didn't have (fame, money,etc.), another ex (tho she ain't something to be proud of) who sent me nudes asking me for a fuck even though she had a boyfriend... Poor fuck. And another one whom I fucked but said she was now single. Her bf got at my door the next day and lot of useless drama that I couldn't care less about ensued.

So you have me: fit, 6'8, young and (probably)handsome, and I browse this sub to remind myself never to do the same mistake again.

quienchingados · 2017-02-02T15:45:13+00:00

Well, actually my mom is a unicorn. She grew up in slums, and now she is the breadwinner, she cooks every night, she cleans the house and does most of the chores. My parents have been together for 38 years and she is always loving no matter what.

This is what I expected. I expected to find a woman like my mom, who knows hard work and genuinely loves her family more than anything. But my mom is a unicorn, and I probably won't be that fortunate.

Judah_Earl · 2017-02-02T17:38:25+00:00

Not just my mother but my aunt too, they thought nothing of fucking over the men in their lives.

quienchingados · 2017-02-02T21:53:06+00:00

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Title	Is anyone not getting married because of your mom?
Author	quienchingados
Upvotes	17
Comments	18
Date	February 1, 2017 6:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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