Is there any relationship between TheRedPill and NoFap?

UnpluggedMaestro · 2013-08-05T16:26:21+00:00

I find nofap counterintuitive to my goals. It's weird, but for me wanting sex actually makes it harder, while if you're chill about sex the bitches throw themselves at you. I suppose its a form of pre-selection: you're chill because you already get lots of it, therefore other women want you, therefore you're a good lay.

Fapping regularly on top of being laid keeps my sexual desperation at a zen level and this helps me to keep my frame. It may work differently for others, but this is how it works for me.

redpillschool · 2013-08-05T15:24:17+00:00

NoFap is entirely mental. If it helps, then good for you. I suspect that any real benefit that comes from it is the confidence built from setting and maintaining goals, not from avoiding masturbation.

Source: I get laid all the time and still like to jerk it.

ToBecomeSuperHuman · 2013-08-05T16:24:13+00:00

Both TRP and NoFap encourage their users to view and interact with women much more clearly than they may have previously. That is the only direct connection.
NoFap teaches you discipline. NoFap can be a catalyst for change once you see the initial improvements - it kick starts many people into self improvement in nany more aspects of their lives.
And think about it, if you no longer have the option to fap, you HAVE to go out and get laid.
The major physiological changes that people sometimes refer to are regarding those with a deep set dependency/addiction to the hyper-stimuli that is pornography.
Ahh, that's another one - both can potentially a catalyst for change from the get-go.

[deleted] · 2013-08-05T15:24:54+00:00

I don't understand what you're trying to get at. Maybe some more detail would be helpful.

TRP treats nofap like anything else: if it works for you do it.

desire_engineer · 2013-08-05T16:14:14+00:00

She can shit test you all day knowing she has a monopoly on the superior vagina - she will be mentally rewarding herself with her own thoughts of success when you fail shit tests.

My advice would be - don't let her reward herself for her own bad behaviour because as that would be like incentivising it.

Fap away but you have to control your desperate thoughts that break your frame. Break down your frustration and put it directly into her calculated punishment for putting shit on you at the time of shit-test (let her make the connection in her head that happy man = happy life, and that involves minimal shit, maximum sex)

soapjackal · 2013-08-05T22:22:17+00:00

As it relates to game and women? No.

As it relates to willpower, addiction ,and psychological ED? Absolutely.

[deleted] · 2013-08-06T04:31:38+00:00

For you OP, if you're going to jerk it, I'd use softcore.

BUT WAIT. Even better is to just start taking quickies from her whenever your dick gets the slightest bit aroused. Just hit the attack button. She'll likely submit. Then that way you get the best of both worlds. A happy dick and resistance to shit tests.

[deleted] · 2013-08-05T19:16:24+00:00

Batter on the brain impedes my judgement so I tend to cater to my wife's needs/demands/shit tests unless I am "empty".

If you are not allowed to have sex with anyone other than your wife, then she has power over you to the extent that you want sex. If you want to get out from under her thumb, you must have credible alternatives.

My suggestion would be: don't put up with her shit, and if she rejects you sexually then tell her "I'm gonna fuck somebody- your choice whether it's you or a girl from a bar."

Note that if she doesn't believe you can pick up a girl in a bar, she's likely to call your bluff. Be prepared to back up your ultimatum- and be prepared for some serious relationship conflict as you reclaim your balls from her and recreate yourself as a high value male in her eyes.

Title	Is there any relationship between TheRedPill and NoFap?
Author	boomshakalaka1233
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	August 5, 2013 3:05 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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