MGTOW community, how do you feel about females in your life that you love?

Mojo_666 · 2016-09-24T14:03:51+00:00

I just shun the romance here, I don't hate on or ignore all women just because they are women. I do however keep distance from the asshats and don't engage with women if I don't have to. I deal with the women I have to deal with pretty much.

project_mayhem_ · 2016-09-24T14:18:46+00:00

mother/daughter/sister/cousins/nieces are the women who already share most of your genes. they are already genetically interested in your survival without you having to be an alfafux or betabux. to these women, you qualify as fully human even when you aren't doing something that specifically benefits them right at the moment.

this is why it's hard for so many men to understand the truth of what we're saying here. the earliest relationships they had were with women, and those women were, in most cases, good to them unconditionally. how can women be so self interested and calculating as MGTOW say they are when my mom and sister don't act like that? your mom and sister do act like that, just not to you.

of course I love my sisters. MGTOW has just shown me how funny some things they do are. I do what I can for anyone around me, but I don't do for a woman what I wouldn't for a man, and no matter how pretty I find her, I make it a point not to be influenced by her.

skeletonized · 2016-09-24T16:36:30+00:00

Here's an interesting NAWALT case in my life.

I don't have blood relatives. Everyone is adopted/marriage. We are not normal.

My Maternal Grandmother was barren, not able to conceive, never went through childbirth. There may be something hormonally different about her that this relates to. She has 3 children by adoption. She picked them. She didn't have to have them.

My Paternal Grandmother is not related by blood either, she married Paternal Grandfather after death of Bio Pat. Grandma, so she's the only one I know on that side.

They actually love me. I actually love them. It's like being able to visit your favorite English teacher or Home Economics teacher from elementary school, as you continue to grow up. They are mentally superior beings. Both of them well versed on politics, have powerful vocabularies, and are great listeners.

I practically lived with them as an early teen because my mom that I have 50% DNA in common with couldn't handle me as a single mom trying to hook new man with a reminder of her past mistakes around.

Any girl I've dated, I've loved their families, who loved me, but that wasn't enough social proof. I always wondered how such a positive environment would produce such bitter, fickle bitches, alas AWALT.

2016-09-24T16:56:13+00:00

I just don't want the state involved in my finances based on who I am fucking

I don't make business decisions with my dick. so I cannot cohabitate with women.

I consider myself a political mgtow. id never be a provider. but i still have relationships. and if the laws changed and there was no chance of me losing my financial independence, and there wasn't any sexist laws or policies I would live with a woman.

but that wont happen. im not an mra because I know women will never give up the privileges that come with being the weaker sex.

oldredder · 2016-09-24T18:49:05+00:00

MGTOW for me only really applies to romantic relationships. I don't hate women and have found plenty I like. I just wouldn't go out with anyone long-term or get married because I believe it is a poisoned chalice for men.

IRL I'm as decent and kind to women as I am to men. It's about combining your own strength with dignity for others I guess.

I really deplore some of the more angry/hateful stuff I see on the forums sometimes. But these guys are usually in the anger phase off the back of a fresh cut.

MGTOW could do with talking less about women and more about men, because that is what we are here for. Men.

hollybegin · 2016-09-24T16:08:23+00:00

I don't talk to wymynnz if I don't have to. When I have to absolutely communicate with one, especially at work, I stay polite, courteous, very concise in both my questions and answers but I always keep a safe distance. I never flirt nor share anything remotely personal.

manifesto18 · 2016-09-24T16:09:11+00:00

Ummm, tough you one.....

I'm going to say i love them?

Darth_Bicycle · 2016-09-24T16:40:28+00:00

Funny question: ”-Do you love the people you love?” Hmm..Gee..I gotta dwell on that for a while. Yeah I do love my mother, but she is definitely just like all the other women. And I don't pursue any ”romantic” relationships with women. Sometimes a woman tries to be friends with me, but once she realizes she can't extract favors from me, that ”friendship” ends real quick. A lot of the time I just ghost women.

solaceFromSolitude · 2016-09-24T21:05:01+00:00

I do not love my mother. She is a whiny spineless person who was addicted and abusive.

My sister is a nice person, but I can not respect her. She also is spineless and very afraid to speak out about the things you know are bothering her. Her solution to problems: eating.

Cousins and nieces. I have very little contact with them. Where I come from the relationship you have with cousins and nieces does not classify as love.

I shun romantic relationships with women. I shun women at work as much as I can. I shun women in public. I only have three female friends. I am trying to avoid one of them as much as a I can, because lately I simply see no point in maintaining a friendship with her. My other female friend is my ex-gf.I love her in a way I guess most men love their sisters. We only speak a few times a year. She is one of the few people I honestly wish the very best in life. I am really happy when I see things are going well for her. She worked hard for all she has obtained in recent years.

My third female friend is quite naive (too honest) and very submissive. She is somehow knowledgeable and open to my opinions. She is the only one I told about me going MGTOW. She understood and was happy I saw things so clearly now. I have known her for almost half my life and love her like a sister.

But yes, even these do often show signs that point to AWALT. I have never met a woman who did not at some point started nagging about small things, while forgetting the bigger picture. It truly seems to me all women nag.

2016-09-24T22:14:44+00:00

My mother, thats it.

Female cousins, havent seen or spoken in 7 years dont even know of theyre alive.

Love doesnt exist btw...

Ultramegasaurus · 2016-09-24T17:31:47+00:00

There is no woman that I really love. Okay, my mother has done a lot for me, but all in all her character is repulsive.

Mother

Bossy, hypergamous, ungrateful, bitter, Alpha widow, sees people as utilities

Half-sister

Bratty, entitled, egocentrical, shallow, hysterical

Cousin (mother's side)

Unemployed, trashy, has baby with thug

Aunt (mother's side)

Fat, disgusting, coalburner, diagnosed with Borderline

I do not know my father's side very well.

recoveringPHPDev · 2016-09-24T20:06:26+00:00

I'm on very good terms with my mother and sister. We love each other for who we are and don't have any strange power dynamic games.

My MGTOW lifestyle is about romantic relationships. While I don't buy awalt I think too many are like that to make dating a worthwhile pursuit. Especially because I never want kids and highly value my independence.

justaskingman7 · 2016-09-24T20:39:22+00:00

they are just the same as every other woman, awalt.

Worst part of that fact is that you realize that even your own mother's love is conditional and those conditions are set on her terms. For example, she wants you to be this kind of son for her, do this to please her and show others that you are x, y and z.. or else she will not love you as much.

Which is obviously bullshit. Where other women, I would axe and disregard completely out of my life.. with her and other female family members I simply ignore and move on... that's the real only difference.

One gets vanished, the other gets ignored - by virtue of the love and family tie only. Otherwise it would be vanishings all round.

oldredder · 2016-09-24T20:49:05+00:00

There are none in my life. Not a one.

2016-09-24T21:46:43+00:00

My mom i love her for being another human but i recognize she's female and sort of retarded

2016-09-25T07:47:50+00:00

i ghosted my family a decade ago; leeches

i came to realize, i cannot involve or concern myself with people that
are SO unwilling to take care of their own lives.

recently i stopped inviting most of my female coworkers to anything
i was doing socially. all of them are engineers, so i can tell them like it
was; they were cats and i dont like to herd them. so i stopped caring at all.
then i stopped inviting everyone else, realizing that all of them were
never going to be MGTOW. despite half of them recently encroaching
on divorce. meanwhile they all watched me slowly free myself from
anyone and anything that was, really, just bullshit.

i recently bought a little place in the middle of nowhere and am free-as-fuck
to do whatever the fuck i want.

this weekend was really Day 1 of True Freedom

every woman in my family, has tried to control me. its probably why
i was MGTOW before the internet

clayticus · 2016-09-25T10:16:18+00:00

I have plenty of family and friends who are women and I care about them a lot. The difference is once they stop being fun I stop hanging out with them. I clearly explained to them I'm not your person to complain to. I don't put up with any shit and will drop them in 2 seconds. All my female relationships are nice because I don't do anything I don't want to do.

That's all the point of mgtow is, is to do what you want.

Title	MGTOW community, how do you feel about females in your life that you love?
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Date	September 24, 2016 1:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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