Lack of sexual polarity means "no charge." You might think that's just a theory we throw around here...but think about it logically. If you were born a male and are interested in bettering yourself, you absolutely will move in the direction of being:

-Stronger (physically and mentally)

-More stoic (i.e. less emotional ups and downs)

-More dominant (in relationships, control of resources, etc.)

This is natural. I'm not saying you turn into a comical version of a Man with a handle bar moustache who eats steak for breakfast. But there's no way to avoid the fact that, if you improve yourself as a man, you're going to display more traits associated with "masculinity."

Women clearly have a different path. Becoming physically strong and mentally stoic doesn't actually help them. That's not their path to betterment. When talking about gender polarity, Tupac Shakur once said: "You wouldn't put sugar [feminine] in your gas tank [masculine], right? That would fuck your whole engine up!"

The issue with the 555 Blue Piller is that he's not polarized. He's very much a boy. He receives sexual gratification from porn instead of real life women. He expresses his masculine urges for competition and dominance in video games and NFL football. Instead of pursuing true wisdom and learning, he'll settle for information mediated by schools and major corporations. The 555 Blue Piller lives a simulation of masculinity.

Notice how the 555 Blue Piller is passive and a receiver. He can't go out and get/create what he wants, so he settles for consuming pre-packaged simulations to satisfy his needs. If you've ever studied the Jewish Kabbalah, it explains that every one starts at the base level of purely looking to receive 100% for themselves. We advance spiritually (and as men) when we're able to move away from this base level of existence, and learn to give in an appropriate manner. Giving is not just donating to charity and being nice, by the way, but that's for another post.

The Blue Pillers life is somewhat dead. He doesn't live in the "real world"...he's disconnected from the Source/life energy/whatever you want to call it. The 555 Blue Piller isn't a real person yet.

He's a "nice boy," a herd animal, a consumer. He has mild background anxiety. He doesn't "get it."