Don't become the monsters whom you fight.

2015-09-04T16:14:05+00:00

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nigelh · 2015-09-04T21:11:52+00:00

Never forget that r/MGTOW is where people come to vent after they've be divorce raped or the like. Hopefully they'll get their act back together and make a new life, not for some other woman, but for themselves.

Don't judge the MGTOW by r/MGTOW. This is the gateway not the finished version. This is where we tell men that they matter and they need to focus on themselves now not go out and make the same sorry mistakes over again just because that's what society is telling them to do. The happy MGTOWs are posting on r/scuba or r/modelmaking or...

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2015-09-04T21:48:13+00:00

Riiiiight, there is no such thing as "female nature" -- well, except of course for all the positive things that women claim are unique to them, all that "nurturing" etc.

Buuuut... obviously there are ZERO negative aspects. Only MALES have negative "natural" tendencies (we "rape" everything and everyone around us... constantly, continually... )

ROTFLMAO

Sweetie, you wandered into the wrong place -- the "fighting" (if it can be called that) is over in /r/mensrights -- which is where you came from and should return to. You obviously don't understand (or more likely are just in denial of) your own nature and that of others... and you really don't belong here.

taewoodz · 2015-09-04T16:00:51+00:00

while i agree it is quite pointless to have an extremist form of hatred towards women, there is NOTHING wrong with applying personal experience and analyzing the problems other men have encountered and choosing not to deal with females and their bullshit. I understand what your trying to say but why should i care about what women view men as when just as many guys are getting fucked over every day once you accept it's a cycle that will never end you then can be at peace

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2015-09-04T17:26:11+00:00

Keep in mind. Plenty of men are mourning and grieving, thus they go through rage, anger, they see the betrayal an lies, and in a sense, te death of their dreams, so to speak. It isn't an easy wake up for many, and trying to dictate how men feel is more of the same age old biological and tribal imperative blindly driven bullshit that bleeds men out of value and their emotional life.

But I agree. After owning up to all that - hating on women for their biology and psychology is no better than the current demonization of men for the crime of being male, and it's hard to go your own way with so much baggage, but it's hard to process being that therapy often doesn't go far enough, and it is hard to find men to talk about these things with since so many of us are emotionally castrated and out of touch with ourselves, often lacking in community and deep male friendship that isn't subject to the myriad problems of the "manning up" tribal imperative.

The last things men need is more blame and shame and "thou shalt or shalt not." What men need is what they have been denied and missing for much of our history - self value beyond the lenses of women and society, emotional connection and growth that goes deeper than women and children, male communities and male companionship, and understanding.

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2015-09-04T15:34:09+00:00

Fella, you will be downvoted down to the ground, hanged, drowned, burned, and quartered. I just wanna let you know you are not the only one with that perception. Now let me step aside, sit down, and watch the squirmish.

SergeantDickhead · 2015-09-04T19:40:58+00:00

Any man who gets divorce-raped with alimony and has their own children held at ransom; would make sense that they present an animosity towards women. If those men want to warn me of said dangers, I have no problem learning from them.

pariahisaking · 2015-09-04T21:26:41+00:00

Sob stories bro?

Iwanttoliveinspace · 2015-09-05T00:48:37+00:00

Not every lion is going to eat me.

I still don't climb into the zoo enclosure to pet them.

Learning an approach of doubt is a natural thing to keep the animal feeling the doubt alive. Have you ever tried to walk right up to a bird with a sandwich and it just flew off? It flew off because you might attack it.

The MGTOW approach is no different. It's all about approaching women with the assumption that they are going to fuck you up, sure maybe that approach isn't always accurate but, like the bird/sandwich situation, it only takes one predator to end your life (either in the sense of life, or finances, or reputation)

Title	Don't become the monsters whom you fight.
Author	melniav0
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	September 4, 2015 3:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/3jmlxf/dont_become_the_monsters_whom_you_fight/
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