My most recent round of dating involved 4 women, all 4 ghosted me.

Sol_Install · 2016-08-19T13:20:08+00:00

Zeus be damned. You have no idea what happened did you? These girls are Dinner Whores. What's that? Your eyes have widened and your ears are interested?

A dinner whore is a woman who used men for for meals/trips/entertainment. This is under the guise of courting the female. Many men experienced what you did. They get along. Laugh and have a good time. So the man thinks they're in right? Wrong. You've been used. Used by a dinner whore.

Remember, women have fucked and will fuck any guy they actually find really attractive or to seek benefits from(financial mostly). This is the cause of your pain. You've been raised(Set up) to be exploited. I bet you thought you were doing the right thing. And following the rules like a Good Man, you are lost. I am telling you the truth.

And I have brought this up before on YouTube. The guys that will suffer are not those of us that have walked away but men like you. Because you have that need for something from the female. Sadly this will put everything about you at massive risk.

The man up and so on is from the fact that humanity doesn't see men as human beings. We're not allowed to have problems or if we do, we're supposed to keep our mouths shut and solve it ourselves. As men, we're expected to fight tooth and nail for a female but the females never really are expected to put in this kind of effort.

They know the game is rigged. They know it's bullshit but humans are weak. They'll never admit it to you. So they'll feed you nonsense to keep you going. You're in pain. It hurts right? You're frustrated. You think they care? They don't. They'l put the blame on you and not the fact that this whole game is bullshit.

Watch your back. If women are treating you like this, more than likely they see you as a Plan B guy aka Clean Up Crew.

Phanekim · 2016-08-19T08:33:08+00:00

I travel a lot. I used to be a lab scientist. Now I am an elementary school teacher (kindergarten). I think the fact I see the parents have pretty crappy lives and the fact I am sort of a pseudo parent to them during the day sorta fills the void.

I've always hated ghosting. I find it sort of rude. I havent been ghosted mainly cause I just don't care. I"m financially set now and I have a really complete life. I play a lot of sports and video games and watch a lot of mma/boxing. I have complete freedom. Its not like I don't get some action (off and on).

Its part of the reason why I never gravitated towards the PUA crap and more towards MGTOW. I just don't care enough to get attached. Irony is that women sorta have to work harder to impress me.

Think about it through a cognitive dissonance point of view. If i'm sorta of an aloof distant person, why are they attracted to you? It must be love if no superficial reasoning can be attributed (money, looks etc etc). Also, learning from teaching, you value what you work for. If women have to work harder for your affection, they will value it more. Its sick but thats the way they are. They are like cats. I always hoped women weren't that way, but every woman in my life is that way from mom, sister, etc etc. I sort of am distant and more aloof and sort of a challenge and for some reason they want to make me happy. Where were they when I was trying to be the good son/brother/boyfriend?

I dont' know where I am going with it but maybe that will touch a chord with you.

squeezeonein · 2016-08-19T12:09:32+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I was the one that ghosted my last 6 dates.

So chicks get ghosted too

redsfan277 · 2016-08-19T13:54:07+00:00

Dont try too hard bro...think about it...if it isn't PICTURE FUCKING PERFECT she will not have any of it. She will always find a flaw.

Recently i was talking to an old ex of mine to see what she was up to and just the conversation i could tell --that she had made up in her mind all the bad things i did...and reminded me of them lmao. Even though --I remembered mostly the good and the good times. She chose to remember the bad. And i noticed that with many girls, --they choose to remember the bad...so unless its picture perfect 100% its not worth it. Plus most women get treated nicely by every men out there...she has plenty of dudes trying to get with her so she can pick and choose.

Just stop caring dude.

d4ng3rz0n3 · 2016-08-19T16:28:55+00:00

Take them to bars not restaurants. Drinks, not dinner.

Cedar70 · 2016-08-19T11:45:58+00:00

Western women in a nutshell .. you're gonna have to find some place where a woman's grown up without Disney and reality tv like maybe the Amish. Forget the Coasts .. the Midwest, Europe, Asia ..

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-08-19T08:37:38+00:00

a famous Portuguese footballer named christiano ronaldo paid to have a surrogate mother I believe. all nice and legal, she got 600k or something and once the baby was born he has full custody.

now granted he has an insane amount of money but the process and solution should remain the same. get financially successful and buy your child, a woman will sell you one. or adopt?

FritzLn · 2016-08-19T09:16:25+00:00

It's pretty much the norm now, and it's best to view it as a gamble. Women ghost all the time, and that's it - they're just lame creatures with no sense of accountability.

Personally, I don't want kids, but can understand the biological imperative to have some.

wawakaka · 2016-08-19T12:58:01+00:00

women flake all the time. take this as a blessing and a sign of how fucked up they are.

Zombocom1911 · 2016-08-19T19:51:43+00:00

They think ghosting is polite, somehow.

victor_knight · 2016-08-19T08:54:50+00:00

Just a wild guess here... but you're probably not one of these guys, right? Do you think that might explain the problem?

2016-08-19T20:37:46+00:00

Hell I was supposed to do something as simple as smoke some dank with a girl and she flaked on that, lol no biggie, got high as hell by myself and played video games, don't take them too seriously, that's what they expect you to do.

Dating in this day & age is completely pointless and a waste of time, like other posters have said; they have so many options of beta chumps lining up with their wallets wide open.

griefercast · 2016-08-19T23:13:09+00:00

get yourself an escort to build up some self esteem, get laid a couple of times and when you feel you don't need the training wheels (escorts) take the next step.

feedmecarrots · 2016-08-20T00:24:49+00:00

I am guessing because I don't know you and am not about to go on a date with you but, women aren't looking at dating as the prelude to a relationship. It's old school thinking. What they seem to want is go from a short term relationship to a long term one. In other words, if you are not in bed with her, it is not real to her. Did you notice how few of them went to three dates? They are ducking the "three date" rule. Also, thee may be more than a bit a truth to another commenter's observation of "dinner whores". They do like to be taken out.

Title	My most recent round of dating involved 4 women, all 4 ghosted me.
Author	empty_meatbag
Upvotes	26
Comments	28
Date	August 19, 2016 8:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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