I've been a fan of MGTOW for a while now. I've been watching the rise of feminism and i've been having a great laugh about it.
It seems like women want someone to serve them and help them live their lives instead of a 50/50 partnership. I have a girlfriend and despite being 7 years younger than her i still earn 4 times as much as her. I took a job in a sector i knew would pay well, not the one i enjoyed most. She has spent her life doing what her parents want her to do.
If i improve myself outside of making money she starts to attack it. I joined a gym and after some beginner gains she started shaming me. Telling me she hates muscly guys. She literally grabbed my bicep and recoiled in a TV sitcom style performance. You can't have your man servant improving himself can we?
She makes all kinds of demands and i used to take great delight in slaving away to fulfil them (or going beyond them). I loved the excited look on her face, it made me feel like a man and i did all of it without fucking up my own career (somehow).
What i've got in return is an angry, needy and psychotic house mate. We haven't fucked in months but she sure as shit has time to go apartment hunting. She started out so great, she seemed so cool and down to earth. I chose the sophisticated book nerd over the hot dumb blond but they all end up the same.
It took all of this to realise we aren't equals. Society doesn't want us to be equals. The game is rigged to create these little monster bitches whilst men wonder WTF happened.
I'm a pretty flexible guy by nature. Nothing much bothers me as long as i can relax - i like low stress and even lower drama ( i get those from work). However, this weekend i told her i'd had enough. I called her out on her bullshit. I said we could split a 2 bedroom apartment if she wants but unless things improve i'm leaving.
Now this is the point that made me realise how fucking true MGTOW is. A man would want some explanation, some examples and need clarification on what they'd done wrong. I've lived with male housemates and despite some of them being sketchy they were all trying to be good people and they would certainly apologise. She didn't say anything like that. She fucking knew! She knew this entire time she was being a fucking bitchy princess and the change in her since then has been like night and day.
I'm stunned. I thought everyone went through life trying to do the best they can for those in their social circle. Apparently this is a male only trait.
I always thought TRP was stupid, cruel and demeaning but now i totally understand how that could work... but that doesn't matter since I'm not looking for a dog to train. If she doesn't stay fun i'll be joining the ranks of MGTOW. I work remotely so i'll just travel and enjoy my life whilst having more money. Fuck being a martyr for a cause that isn't worth the time of day.
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Your post seemed sensible then I read the dead bedrooms post and your reasoning seems a bit more off.
Gambler's fallacy; strike it from the record.
Consider including all the time you spend/waste with her.
You would be crazy to do this in my opinion. Just going to put out the hypothetical scenario where you go with the above no sexual contact and hang out all the time in the new apartment. Then she starts bringing guy friends over to fuck and your stuck with a new lease.
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