Preface:

If you think you aren't getting the desired results with women because you aren't shredded enough, tall enough, or rich enough, then stop thinking for a bit because it may be something completely else. It's Friday and I am assuming you will be going out meeting people and doing shit. You may also be meeting women you are interested in. Therefore, I will be posting about a particular aspect, that might be holding you back from busting a nut in her gut, starting from today to Sunday.

 

Summary:

“Do. Or do not. There is no try.” -The Empire Strikes Back

 

Body:

Just be yourself™️. Woah-woah-woah. Hold your horses. Don't flip your shit because I uttered those unholy words in here. There is an important distinction in the JBY I want you to be v/s the JBY the hambeasts, err I mean feminists want you to be.

 

Let's say you have been reading TRP for a while. You monk mode'd and are now ready to slay bitches, so on you go and you approach and talk to a few girls. And what's that? She gave you a fake number or she walked away? Ok, whatever fuck it - Doesn't matter. There are more women. Then you see a few videos about how cool Russel Brand and James Bond are. So you start incorporating their swagger and demeanour in your interactions. And?!?! nope still getting shit results.

 

So you read some more. You stumble upon these people called ECs. You become like OmLala on your tinder profile. You become GayLubeOil in the gym. You become like Archwinger in your interactions. And lo and behold shit still doesn't work.

 

And this is what I am trying to get at. You are acting like someone else. Your personality has become a mush and hodge-podge of different people. You are not being true to yourself. You are taking what the ECs are saying too literally instead of taking them as guidelines and adapting them to you and your circumstances. You aren't being yourself. You aren't being natural. Remember only 7% of our communication is verbal - the other 93% is non-verbal and women of all people are insanely good at picking up these subtle signs of somebody faking it. Your fakeness is oozing out of every pore - women and very observant men can tell. To them, it just feels "off". Something about this guy is "off". And that's all it takes for you to strike out with the girl. Game over.

 

When you are trying to do something that doesn't come to you naturally, that's when you come across as creepy, or fake, or off-putting. You are on a completely different wavelength than her. Your abs, height, and BMW aren't worth anything anymore because she is just so turned off by your unnaturalness. When you are gaming a woman, do it in a way that you want. Don't verbatim copy what RSD and Mystery told you. Take those things as guidelines and adapt them to your personality. If you aren't a funny guy don't try to show off your sense of humour in order to "DHV". It just won't work. She is there for your amusement. Play her and play with her. Pickup is an art, not a science. The second you start thinking consciously about how you want to go about. Game over.

 

If you want a 'role model' as an inspiration then look for somebody who has a similar personality as you. I personally follow Russel Brand, because our interactions with women are extremely similar, and it does not come across as fake. I am not a brooding, strong, silent type person and so if I start incorporating James Bond's/Don Draper's demeanour in my interactions it will come across as extremely fake and try-hard.

 

Let me try to get you a feel of what you should do. Look at this clip of Russel Brand on the View [watch till at least 1:04]. He isn't 'trying' to charm anybody. He isn't doing anything to appease the women there. He isn't saying things that he thinks other people will find funny. He is unapologetically being himself. Once you become badass enough, it's time to stop faking it and it's time to show who you actually are. Be natural. Trust me it makes a huge difference.

 

Remember that night when you were out with your friends and you were just killing it with the ladies. That night you weren't thinking about Game or TRP or anything. You were dancing, making out and getting numbers. You didn't have to peacock or hit them with negs. It was like being in a trance. That's you being natural. I want you to be that guy.

 

From today onwards I am redefining rules number 1 and 2.

1) Be Natural

2) Don't be unnatural

 

Russel Brand being himself

And again

and again