Is there a "safe" person?

[deleted] · 2016-10-01T10:32:53+00:00

I have been in the same situation as you. What I decided to do was just spill my heart out to a random guy while I was on vacation. I thought it would make me feel better, but after the fact I felt no change. The guy could not truly feel what I was talking about, so I felt no better. Quite frankly, the vast majority of people are simply unable to share the emotions experienced on the journey towards becoming a better man, either because they are women, or because they are typical pathetic and complacent men.

The bottom line is: If you really want to talk to someone, the safest choice would be a near- or total stranger. However, in my experience, it won't make you feel any significant relief.

Pewdielockz · 2016-10-01T11:29:35+00:00

I got a good female friend who lives some hours away from me, and usually we use each other as a type of emotional bag, and we tell each other things which makes us sad, happy, etc.

Probably not pretty red pill, but i don't care, we know so much about each other because nobody could use anything against each other.

Furthermore I have two very good male friends I can usually talk about such things. And honestly, I would be much worse in life if I couldn't talk about my problems.

Edit: I know we got some people here who got a opinion of people like "you can trust nobody blah blah blah". And probably they are right. But it would be a damn sad life if you really trust nobody. I'm seriously happy when my best friend got luck in love/sex life and other things, and I guess he is too. Strong male connections are needed this day more then anything else.

sir_wankalot_here · 2016-10-01T11:00:16+00:00

Someone who is six feet under.

mikesteane · 2016-10-01T12:00:54+00:00

In a male-only support group.

In Britain, ask your doctor for a referral to the primary health care counsellor.

counselling.

Among a closed group of friends who understand what gets said in the group stays in the group.

elmerovingio · 2016-10-01T10:09:03+00:00

Your brother, if you have one

aanarchist · 2016-10-01T10:23:45+00:00

i go the holistic health route of you're supposed to express your emotions in order to be a healthy and fully fledged and self actualized human being.

sure the people underfoot that worship you are supposed to see an omnipotent god who displays amused mastery and makes everything look easy, but your inner circle should be people who know the human being that is you should be people who understand that you feel things and appreciate and accept that.

the problem with mainstream trp is it makes people more like lizards than humans. they shut down their emotions due to feeling ashamed of having them in the first place, and so they become little more than butthurt sociopaths trying to get their share of the damaged pussy.

Title	Is there a "safe" person?
Author	skeptixon
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	October 1, 2016 9:59 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/55cm2b/is_there_a_safe_person/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/is-there-a-safe-person.63392 https://theredarchive.com/post/63392

Comments