It's sad

squidracer · 2016-04-24T22:56:53+00:00

Lack of options for the modern man. There are just sooooooo many single moms out there now. Or fatties

mgtowguynow · 2016-04-24T22:29:33+00:00

WTF is wrong with men today?

Today? Pussy-pandering beta males have existed all throughout history. This is nothing new.

There's really nothing that can be done. Just laugh at them for not waking up to the fact that the piss game is a time waster.

TheBrownMyst · 2016-04-24T23:34:02+00:00

There will be no shortage of these types of men in the future either. Generations of males completely brought up by moms and their female friends with their dads running around after their wives trying to put out fires and keep the peace. Men with no strong sense of their own masculinity and agency. Unless these men and boys find strong male role-models to identify with or at least experience male-minded environments (like this), then they are doomed to play out a low-test beta provider role in their lives with women. It's a fucking grim story.

lauranium · 2016-04-25T01:58:20+00:00

The problem is obesity.

/fatpeoplehate has it right.

Obesity screws up the market value of women.

Non-overweight women have an inflated value due to the fact that most women (70%+ depending on geography) are overweight, siphoning the majority of male demand onto a minority of females. A healthy weight single mom with 2 kids is still better than a hamplanet. So now women can get away with that nonsense much easier.

Even overweight but not obese (OBNB) women have an increased and inflated value due to the fact that most overweight women are outright obese.

Women in general have an artificially inflated value due to gynocentrism, and feminism, both of which inflate their value the former in general (society level) and the latter subjectively ("I have a career, I'm so empowered, this means I'm entitled to a 6' tall Chad!").

Five_Decades · 2016-04-25T04:11:15+00:00

First off, we need to stop shaming men who don't date or have girlfriends or wives. People always assume if you are a guy who doesn't date or have a wife it is because you are disgusting and no woman would want you. Nobody ever says 'could it be because the market is full of crap women who aren't worth it'? Men are just as guilty as women for shaming men. I'd say this is a major motivator, men are desperate to avoid shame and peer pressure.

Dating is misery for todays men.

Phroneo · 2016-04-24T23:31:18+00:00

Seems to me that your friends really value the family / kids goal in life. Perhaps they were never that successful with women before and now they come out badly in the dating market as they can only pick up the scraps.

You on the other hand are probably content on your own and are happy to walk away from a bad deal so you will not have to sacrifice much to be happy. They do.

It's pathetic and they will be miserable but just because they are your friends and may be cool with you, in the other sphere of life, they are pathetic losers with no ability to be content on their own.

methylotroph · 2016-04-25T01:06:59+00:00

Its the typical beta male mating strategy to find a used women who is in need of a man to help take care of her and her wombturds, in trade she provides pussy and a few more wombturds hopefully sired by said beta-male.

Lets say that alpha male had 4 kids with 3 women, each one of those women has a beta male who sires and extra 4 kids total, the betas get 1.33 kids each plus another 1.33 that are not theirs, taking care of a total of 2.66 kids each. This allows women to sire 1 or more children from a desire alpha male who are ~20% or less of the male population, and allows to beta males to also have children. It is a win, win, win, for the genes, sure the beta male needs to pick up the tab but he does so in order to make himself worthy to the women.

It is like serial cuckold.

Spungo1 · 2016-04-25T03:46:17+00:00

Feminists are completely right when they say most men are pathetic losers. It's all part of evolution. Men do their best to attract a female, and females select mates. This means men evolve to be pathetic losers who will do anything to get sex, and women evolve to be entitled princesses who expect the world in exchange for sex.

Greetings1 · 2016-04-25T04:04:34+00:00

My friend is 6-1, above average face, 75k a year, jacked. Proposed to his 210 pound whale, who is a secretary with no personality. I really don't get it either. Even in my loser days, I would have been embarrassed to be seen with a fattie on a night out, I can't even fathom being that desperate.

bigeyedbunny · 2016-04-25T05:19:44+00:00

All my friends which I warned about getting married, but still they married, are stressed, running around to please a woman who transformed in a bitchy, almost always angry, growing in size entitled abusive woman

from the seeming sweet and loving person that she presented herself to be in the first months when they were dating.

Also some of the wives have cheated on them, anal sex, etc, broke their hearts.

While the happy and successful friends, none of them got married, and they have a good, free life.

EconomistMagazine · 2016-04-25T14:58:02+00:00

I moved from a small town in middle America to Southern California and almost all of my old buddies have fallen into this trap. (If there are any purple men out there just move to a big city and you will have good female options again.)

The pressure to settle down and have a family in small town America are HUGE and marrying a single mom relieves a lot of pressure on these men as well. There's nothing to do so people have babies so moms aren't any worse than single women in the "fun department". I think these women try to change the bad boy and when they can't they settle for a guy that's been nice from the beginning.

For a fun recap I know a guy that married and has a kid with his wife of 5 years older whom already had a kid (bio dad gets 2 weekends a month custody). A second guy that his wife (2 years older) cheated on him and took his baby and now has a second one (3 weekends a month custody). Another guy in the same situation that has bio kids but imported a Japanese wife over. Another nice guy that's an alcoholic and so can only date massive whales. A guy that had an oops baby, (he's ex weighs at least twice as much as him) then mom moved to Texas, he followed, and now it's stuck there for the next 18 years because the court ruled in her favor.

And the kicker is my last buddy whom is going to marry a woman 16 years older than him, whom had 3 kids from a now 70+ yo man, with 2 of those kids being in there earlier 20s and are actually closer to his age than the mom he's dating, and an 8yo. She's from rural Japan and they're moving there for a few years then maybe moving back. I wish him luck and hope the connection is real but it's sad that there are so few people to choose from.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2016-04-25T01:22:47+00:00

modern man

Nope. These types are not modern men but operate on primitive caveman lizard brain programming.

There is too much information and warning about females for anything other than that to be the case. No one enlightened would be anything other than a MGTOW in my opinion.

All you have to be is thankful you're not them.

Title	It's sad
Author	hairman2
Upvotes	58
Comments	58
Date	April 24, 2016 10:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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