I was born in 1973 and i was not planned.. I have two siblings. John, he was born in 1955.. I don't have a good relationship with him... Susan, she was born in 1960.. I don't have a good relationship with her either, but then agian that is kinda udnerstandable since they are pretty old compard to me..

My Father Richard Sr (1927-2012) Gave me the same childhood that my siblings received even know i was a accident and he was already pretty old when I was born.. I respect him for that and appreciate him for that.. We bonded over sports mostly the red wings and hockey in general.. I miss him a lot and just writing this makes me tear up thinking of all the great memories we had together...

My mother Julie(1931-Present) is a great loving mother.. She understands why I don't get married.. She lives with me and I try to spend a lot of time with her since she is 85 and old.. I hire a in home nurse for her and I'd never put her into a nursing home...

A lot of my friends have gone away and have gotten married and settled down unlike me so my 4 dogs really help keep me company..

I work as a trademen(Plumber) and make 65 thousand a year after taxes.. I own a 2000ft 1(2 if you include the basement) story house customary built for me when I was 32.. This is what being a bachelor has gotten me a nice quiet debt free life with a nice house.... The house is on 25 Acres of land..

My last long term relationship ended in 2013 and she was a nice girl who insisted on paying for herself, but I knew if I proposed and married her I would run the chance of being in debt and having a divorce..

Anyway in the end staying a bachelor has gotten me a nice life and a debt free life that most don't have.. I'm now in tears and thinking about my family.. Life and Memories are the greatest thing we have... Anyway have a good morning everyone I'm gonna go back to drinking my coffee..