Ok so i want to know what could i have done better in this situation.
Long story short: she started emotional drama over a damn text, so i simply soft nexted her for a week.
After a week goes thru i write her, invite her to meet up, she says she's not coming over after not talking for over a week and she says she's tired of always traveling for me, and it's cold.
I say i don't participate in this emotional drama and i don't have time for shit like that.
She starts making excuses etc, i say i don't care about your excuses , if you do that emotional drama shit, it's not acceptable under any circumstances and that won't be tolerated.
From her come some complains and says you never start to say shit first, or never take my hand first when he go public. She start's complaining that i don't show her enough attention etc.
Then i ask if everything's so bad and you complain all the time, why are you aiming for long term relationship with me?
She says i don't know if i want ltr anymore.
I say , ok , we can remain what we are then.
convo ends.
next day she text's me and invites me to go see her, but i say i already made plans, maybe next week.
she said ok.

This girl is Fwb and i've been seing her for 9months. Quality girl, with good upbringing, no tattoo's long hair, feminine etc. She's been always pushing for ltr, but i always said let it take a natural course and see where this goes. Sometimes she even cried after expressing that i'm not commiting, but she didn't leave anyways.
With all that shit she was saying etc she still invited me to come and see her, so she def want's me to fuck her and i bet she still want's me as ltr. But do all women complain about shit after soft next ?
Also i know i fail loads of comfort tests , so that might also be why, but overall what do you think about this situation? Any tips how to notice and pass comfort tests so i can keep having this good sex while providing her with some comfort instead of always keeping her on the edge?