http://www.newsner.com/en/2015/12/a-daughters-words-is-moving-millions-dear-dad-i-will-be-called-a-whore/

I don't even know how to begin to tackle the overinflated sense of self-importance, the presumed and assumed merit that is imputed to all women, and the entitlement without due obligation that is oozing out of this worthless piece of emotional drivel. But I'll try.

  1. The video assumes that all men are refined or have finesse. That there aren't men who don't have the finer graces, and that all men have the acculturing of the higher classes. I.e, it assumes that it is a meaningful endeavour to try to police crude behaviour out of men, among men.

  2. The video assumes that it is possible to impose a uniform standard requirement of refinement on all men, while refusing to attempt to impose or even define the appropriate standards for refinement for women.

  3. Unfortunately, forgetting the "men vs women" scorecard, there are the high classes and the uncouth general masses. You can't turn a swine or a sow into a purebreed stallion or mare. Breeding is breeding.

Therefore, attempting to ask men to co-operatively stop unrefined behaviour is ludicrous. This is the fundamental flaw in their argument: they are attributing lack of sophistication to all of masculine-dom, and they can't see that lack of ethics, lack of class, lack of breeding and flawed philosophical and empathetic grounding are a human problem and not a male problem.

And of course, they don't even see that there is such a thing as lack of refinement in women ("Unladylike behaviour"). Clearly, all women are princesses and aristocrats of court.

Then they begin to build case examples off of their flawed premise:

  • "Daddy I'm sure you'd be ashamed of me now. I'm wasted.": They refuse to impose any form of etiquette and appropriate behaviour on women, and expect no consequences for keeping bad etiquette.

  • "At some point a boy will slide his hands down my pants": They refuse to acknowledge that ungentlemanly men will do ungentlemanly things, and that anyone, man or woman who keeps uncouth company should expect to find themselves encountering unpleasant experiences, and that it is the responsibility of every individual whether male or female to both abide by high-class behaviour, and also to select companions who are of a decent nature, because you can never make the unrefined class disappear.

  • "Which means that by the time I reach 14, the boys in my class would have called me a whore, a btch and cnt, and all sorts of other things": They are using this solely to rile up the protective instinct. The key thing here is reputation: people will call you all sorts of things; even other women will. Your comportment and reputation will determine which things will stick. Attempting to stop all men from calling you names specifically is a useless endeavour. Your behaviour will determine which ones will stick.

  • "By the time I'm 16 ... boys would have reached into my pants ... while I'm so drunk I can't even stand straight": In any situation where you are in an environment where you should keep your wits about you, it is universally unwise to lose your sobriety. Additionally, again, you have obligations to filter away bad company by comporting yourself in a manner that befits the refinement of the company you want to attract. Ergo, getting filthy drunk at 16 is ill-advised.

  • "Although I say 'No', they just laugh, because it's funny right?": Yes: this is a well-known, well researched, well-understood human flaw: human beings enjoy seeing the degradation of other human beings. It's entertaining in a perverse way to observe another human being brought low. It's for this reason that we all avoid placing ourselves into compromising situations: because this perverse sense of humour is shared by all human beings, both men and women and you risk long-term reputation stains when you allow yourself to become the object of amusement by compromising yourself. Stop the presses. We laugh at other people when they fall. Shocking. Oh, right: you're a princess -- nobody should ever laugh at you!

Furthermore, this video makes it seem as if all women go through rape or sexual abuse, even to the extent of making it seem as if it's a rite of passage.

The sad thing is that white knights just can't get enough of this kind of emotional maelstrom stirring.