Why do you think there is more sex in co-habitation than marriage?

Isaiah4verse1 · 2015-12-07T13:10:09+00:00

Because everything a woman does is to trap you into financial slavery.

Co-habitation is only a stepping stone, she's not quite there yet so she has to put out to get you hooked.

In marriage, she's already got you. She doesn't have to do shit.

gundahir · 2015-12-07T13:21:48+00:00

It is obvious. During girlfriend/boyfriend status she legally has absolutely no power over you. One wrong step and you can say "there is the door" if you got balls. Not putting out frequently is one of the reasons she would get dumped if the guy has any self respect. In marriage ( worst case with kids ) the guy is absolutely trapped. She has no incentive to work out/look good and put out frequently anymore because you cant end the relationship without serious repercussions anymore ( divorce rape ). This is exactly why not only the sex frequency drops at some point but also most married women get fugly rather quickly. At least in my country. Some years ago I saw statistics about sexless marriages in my country. On average the sex completely stops after 8 years. My parents didn't even sleep in the same bed.

User-31f64a4e · 2015-12-07T15:15:54+00:00

It's like dread game. You can leave at any point. Her lack of leverage causes her to be a better GF than she will be as a wife.

oldredder · 2015-12-07T14:00:19+00:00

duh. Women use sex as a lure to get what they want. Until they're pregnant and/or have that legal binding slave contract the man isn't all the way enslaved yet. She can safely stop having sex with him (but go have sex with other men behind his back) once he's shackled for life.

2015-12-07T15:07:42+00:00

I've never been married, but anytime I've cohabitated I got sex whenever I wanted.

So probably

Allanlemos · 2015-12-07T21:33:20+00:00

I don't know about other countries,but here in Brazil,cohabitation equals marriage to the legal system,so it's not a way out since you may still get screwed over and end up having to pay alimony,in addition to losing half of your shit.

Greetings1 · 2015-12-07T16:10:57+00:00

Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?

ColtsDragoon · 2015-12-07T19:03:36+00:00

Because in a cohabitation a woman has less power and control and therefore needs to continously make an effort to please her partner so he doesnt end the relationship.

In a marriage if divorce occurs a woman can take you for everything you have and so she can behave however she pleases. Your choices in marriage are to take the abuse like a bitch or leave and financially subsidize her lifestyle for the next 20 years she wins either way.

In cohabitation without marriage when woman stops having sex the man has the option of leaving and therefore they need to keep having sex.

oldredder · 2015-12-07T16:31:49+00:00

Because the value of marriage has been forgotten by both men and women alike. Men in the sense that because we can get sexed without having to make a huge commitment, but women have defiled this significantly worse. As stated by others, most women once they get in the marriage don't feel they have to keep up anymore. They think that because they landed their finacial provider that they can just sit back and enjoy the ride in the hopes that the man won't want to go through the divorce process. And of course if he dare do so she'll take him for anything and everything she can get.

The issue, I believe stems from the fact that we both tend to put on our pretty faces and maintain the illusion of who we really are all the way up until "I do." Again, women are more devious at this tactic than men. We usually have most of the paint washed off just before the day, but they keep it on for a few more years.

But it's not all hopeless... there are still women out there who are upfront with who they really are early on. I think MGTOW has started to spur up just before things crossed the final threashold of societal collapse. My advice is to keep to who you are, recognize the issues and one day a woman might come along who doesn't conform to the things this community talks about regarding the majority of women... speaking from experience.

2015-12-07T21:06:59+00:00

Because women keep up the facade that they want sex and they keep their weight to manageable levels until they get what they want out of a man.

In some cases, that's a ring. In others, it's children. But when she gets what she wants, that's when she sees you as a solved Rubik's Cube and wants you gone so she can keep the cash and prizes and do what she really wanted. Which is eat, ride other cocks, whatever.

2015-12-08T02:23:08+00:00

Carrot and Donkey. She wants to lead you into slavery (aka marriage)

MuscleCarz · 2015-12-08T03:50:50+00:00

Easy:

She knows she has NO LEGAL LEVERAGE, i.e., she can't use withholding intimacy or affections to manipulate him because if she tries it, she knows he can just walk, i.e., leave the relationship--without any legal implications or external mitigating factor--which keeps each person on their best behavior. In other words treating each other with kindness and respect.

Unlike marriage it's a truly committed, healthy, balanced, fair and inspiring way to live/be involved in a love relationship, which is why WOMEN FUCKING HATE IT.

Title	Why do you think there is more sex in co-habitation than marriage?
Author	Gittr
Upvotes	19
Comments	34
Date	December 7, 2015 1:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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