It's wrong that this guy is totally getting bashed for breaking up with his 30yr old girlfriend over her sexual history. One commenter even said her past doesn't matter!

captainsaveahoe69 · 2020-01-16T09:37:41+00:00

No, women have their preferences and so do we.

Women don't understand this because it doesn't affect them in the same way.

DannyTTT55 · 2020-01-16T11:00:11+00:00

Post was deleted so can't see what it says. Looked like something to do with abuse, or maybe that was just the woman's excuse for being a whore, either way, you're not there to be her therapist and to throw your life away especially withing the current legal system

jeetz09 · 2020-01-16T13:18:24+00:00

Like I said before, a lot of big companies do not like applicants with too many previous employments in their resumes that didn’t last long.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2020-01-16T14:35:53+00:00

Obligatory relevant clip

Hiromant · 2020-01-16T09:48:51+00:00

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Silva_Shadow · 2020-01-16T23:52:48+00:00

Women always preface that shit by trying to absolve themselves out personal responsibility. She was prostituting herself out. These women are way smarter than you men think. When it suits them "o I didn't know what I was going" and when it does suit them "my body my choice". She was literally being a prostitute and knew it. The deleted post below:

"I don't even know where to begin. It's been 3 weeks since we broke up and I still can't accept what happened. From the beginning: Me and Sara were dating for about 7 months and one late night we were up talking about intimacy. And somehow it came to me complimenting her sex drive. She loved sex, always wanted more and I couldn't get enough of her as well. And then she said she was always like this, ever since she was a teenager. I asked her how old was she exactly when she had sex the first time. And my heart sunk when I heard her say 14 Now I got nothing against people who love sex, I love it too. But one thing you have to understand is that we're polar opposites in that regard. I was 23 during my first time, and I only had one sexual partner at that. And she's had countless, like high double digits. So I had sex almost 10 years later than her first sexual experience. I didn't even know I had a penis until I was 20 (exaggerated but you get the point) For some reason her answer really disturbed me, and I wanted to know more. So I asked her if it was one of her friends ? Perhaps someone we know ? Our inner circle ? She said no. And this is when it all went to hell. She said it was a 35 year old man. A sugar pedo daddy That bald slob was having sex with the woman I loved when she was fourteen! Underage! He wasn't even wearing a condom. Taking full advantage of her. I couldn't speak, I just remember listening to her wide-eyed. I wanted to kill him in that moment. She kept telling me how she was ok with it, and how she wanted it to happen. So without going into too much detail that asshole was literally creampie-ing her almost daily. And in exchange he was buying her clothes and even sex toys online. Literally sex in exchange for goods, prostitution. Anything she wanted, she was getting it all. All she had to do was have sex with him. I was horrified. Even now typing this I feel my hear beat three times faster and my hands are shaking slightly Mortified, I pretended that it didn't really matter. But it did, I don't know why I hid my shock from her. After that I couldn't sleep. I kept imagining her younger self, and that pedophile on her. I felt sick to my stomach, lost my appetite, couldn't sleep. I slowly ghosted her over the next couple of days because I couldn't deal with it. It was so crushing, and I felt like dying. She knew something was wrong, but I couldn't even talk to her because I was so angry at what happened to her As cringy as this may sound I actually punched a wall several times and the pain felt really good. I knew Ihad to talk to somebody about it. So I told some of my online friends about it, because I couldn't trust my real life friends with this information. They all said I did the right thing by distancing myself from her. And that it's messed up, that I wasn't exaggerating or anything. However that didn't make me feel good at all. Quite the opposite, instead of venting it felt like I made more people feel what I was feeling Two weeks after she told me, we broke up. She was visibly upset and she didn't understand why I decided to end it. I couldn't even properly explain it to her because that would mean I'd have to think and speak about those dreaded events. In the end though I simply told her that I'd like to date someone who's a little more like me. More romantic and inexperienced, and that I couldn't deal with her past. We haven't spoke since So now for the important bit: am I the asshole for breaking up with her ? I truly loved her with all my heart when I was blissfully unaware. On one hand she opened up to me and I betrayed her trust by breaking up wit hher. But on the other hand I did the hard thing, because deep in my heart I knew I had no future with that woman. I knew I would never get past it, and it would always haunt me. I've learned to trust my instincts based on past experiences, and I'm glad I did what I did. I just wish it didn't feel so wrong. And I also hoped that all my anger would go away when we broke up, but it didn't. It's still stirring inside me no matter how much I try suppress it. I considered therapy but I have no idea how I can even explain my situation to that poor specialist I'm sure there's better men in this world who wouldn't care about her past. Or hell maybe some of them actually went through something similar and that would bind them together perfectly. But sadly that isn't me. In my mind I wish her all the best because she really deserves to be happy I'm glad she told me the truth. I was absolutely truthful with her even when it was embarrassing for me, and I'm glad she did the same. It may have caused us to fall apart, but I'm happy it came up when it did. And not too late, because the truth eventually comes out. And I would have truly hated her with all my heart if she only said something 10 years from now. I don't consider this to be a "bullet" that I dodged because she's a wonderful person and I enjoyed knowing her. It's more like mm her telling me that the boat I'm in is heading somewhere completely different. And I got off at the very last second Sara if you're reading this somehow, I'll always love you. I'm so sorry we couldn't be together TLDR: My ex-girlfriend told me that she was having casual raw sex for money with a 35 y/o man when she was only 14. Made me physically ill and angry, couldn't deal with it so I ended the relationship but still feel sorry".

Anonymous12088 · 2020-01-17T07:45:31+00:00

No it isn't wrong. Just like it isn't wrong for a woman to have a past. As long as he ends the relationship in a respectful manner. It just means they are not compatible on something that is a deal breaker for them. No one is right or wrong for their beliefs or views.

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