How to deal with no friends, no gf, toxic family and terrible parents?

ReverendCatch · 2019-12-08T15:08:11+00:00

I’ll tell you how. Go your own way. Forge your destiny. It is yours, afterall.

Pick something you give a damn about and master it.

IThinkThisIsAUser · 2019-12-08T14:41:12+00:00

Vacation

DannyTTT55 · 2019-12-08T14:45:34+00:00

Move out and get some hobbies. No gf is a bonus

Octoxo · 2019-12-08T15:22:28+00:00

Great men are forged in the fires of adversity. The weak ones are destroyed by its flames. Only you can find your path to greatness. Short cuts are fraught with peril. Question those that sell easy answers and be inspired by those who have succeeded.

Fleeb4MrZurkon · 2019-12-08T15:45:21+00:00

As someone in the same boat, you find a passion and give into if. Learn to make friends or be happy in your solitude. You more than likely have ambition, listen to it. Be the best version of yourself, don’t obsess over the negative, keep moving forward

krenovinspired · 2019-12-08T19:52:47+00:00

Stop being a fucking victim to start with. You aren't the first one to be dealt a shitty hand. NO one is in charge of your life except you. The sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

tablett379 · 2019-12-08T22:44:31+00:00

Work till you are 40-45 and retire on savings. Your stuck in the mindset of slaving till you can't work another minute, it doesn't cost that much to support 1 guy.

2019-12-08T14:41:18+00:00

Find a men’s group to learn self improvement.

Look up Mankind Project.

johnRambo13 · 2019-12-08T14:46:07+00:00

I find that Sailor Jerry rum is a great remedy to that problem.

Chatter_ · 2019-12-08T14:47:39+00:00

Start doing what you wanna do. You’re free. I woke up wanting to go to the Atlanta Falcons game & just found a cheap ticket.

jkarovskaya · 2019-12-08T15:43:54+00:00

Glomming on to a girlfriend thinking that's a solution to your problems tends to end in disappointment for all parties, or far worse scenarios

Leave your parent home if you're still there, and avoid your family for at least a few years.

Get an education, go apprentice in a trade, find something you really like doing, and see if there's a way you can make a living at it.

Or travel, be a vagabond, go get out into the world and have adventures hitch hiking if you have to.

Figure it out.

You have to make it happen, it won't normally come knocking on your door

GrisBosque · 2019-12-08T15:53:29+00:00

Man! how did you get rid of or avoid so much baggage!?!?

Looks like open water ahead after the last couple reefs!

Have you considered that when you are down to just yourself, that you are really free?

I've got a couple of friends, but they are maritally limited, and not allowed to do much with me.. But you obviously will have me beat, when You exit the family problems... I did everything in reverse order....

Sharky-Dude · 2019-12-08T16:26:19+00:00

Plan your escape. Dont just daydream about it. Take steps and make sacrifices to attain your freedom. Work your butt off. Hoard your money. Dont waste money on anything unnecessary. Ironcally this will ge easier with few friends and no gf. The goal is complete and total independence. To be in control of your life and not rely on anyone or anything else. The rest will fall in to place when its all on your time.

Your day will come my friend. And it will be glorious.

drago8452 · 2019-12-08T17:28:03+00:00

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Djiark · 2019-12-08T21:24:12+00:00

Atomic Habits by James Clear.

I reccomend starting with this one. From youre replies i see that you dont see colors and magic in live. I was there 9 months ago when my gf of 13 years left me. Im 30 so it was like half of my life. But today im having time of my life while being single and working as truck driver. I do what i want when i want it.

Everything is in your head. When will my day come you ask? Its today! Go out, do something you always wanted to do and dont look at anybody else!

Feeling ashamed of you weight? Go to gym. And change thinking about yourself from "im fat" to "im a weight lifter" or "im a gym goer".

Seriously, good and positive mindset is a magic key to happy and positive life.

I believe in you bro!

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-12-08T23:04:21+00:00

Embrace your bliss. If you're adult, let go of your parents. Find total peace and freedom in being alone. See the truth: you need something/ someone to be unhappy. But you need nothing to be happy about.

Toxic family?! LMAO what is family exactly about? Some more oxygen addicts sharing some DNA molecules with you?

kittenkake · 2019-12-14T14:40:22+00:00

Work on you. Be the man that will attracted people that are worth your time. Don't settle. My husband is living proof of this. He got fed up with working menial jobs and dating low quality women. He worked hard, got into a nice apartment, started doing things that made him happy and interested him. He met me, I told him as long as he's honest and respectable I would be loyal to him forever. He moved me in asap (he asked at 4 months but I waited until 7 months bc I was nervous lol) He bought a house less than a year later, we got married, had a baby. He prides himself for his work ethic and it pays, he's gotten raise after raise and I'm so proud. He's decisive, doesn't put up with bs from anyone, and doesn't dwell on things he can't control. He aims to be healthy physically and most important mentally. He takes care of his responsibilities, is a wonderful provider, and my rock. He got me away from toxic mom and sister. Taught me to have a damn backbone and stand up for myself.

4 years later I still get excited to cook his favorite meals like we're first dating. He deserves it. This home and our land is his kingdom and I freaking love it. Sorry to go on and on lol

SprinterLyfe · 2019-12-08T14:49:09+00:00

Find a modern-leaning church with drums, bassist, and electric guitar. No where else in the world will you find a more open community of people wanting to know you. PM me if you want some suggestions.

SprinterLyfe · 2019-12-08T14:48:56+00:00

Find a modern-leaning church with drums, bassist, and electric guitar. No where else in the world will you find a more open community of people wanting to know you. PM me if you want some suggestions.

Title	How to deal with no friends, no gf, toxic family and terrible parents?
Author	gebjij
Upvotes	20
Comments	35
Date	December 8, 2019 2:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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