Genuine Question: Do you plan on getting married?

strongandhappy · 2019-11-24T05:55:12+00:00

No. Long term plan: continue enjoying life.

GeorgeWashingMachin · 2019-11-24T05:55:13+00:00

Hell to the fuck no.

DangZagnut · 2019-11-24T05:57:53+00:00

Nope.

Long term game plan? I'm not playing a game. Like girl's nonsense OLD profiles say, "I don't have time for games."

Marriage is for stupid people.

Ricky584 · 2019-11-24T06:43:09+00:00

I will not betray my 2D waifu.

Meine Ehre heißt Treue !

Brat6609 · 2019-11-24T05:57:45+00:00

Actually, i’m not really categorical either way. It depends on whether i assess the net benefit of marriage to be more than/less than the net detriment. Many people here have already implicitly made that assessment for themselves (of marriage being more detrimental than not), but being from an Asian country I reckon the odds are not as skewed.

Pr1nc3Sam · 2019-11-24T06:11:57+00:00

im on that mgtow get rich or try dying shit...and take my money to the grave type shit...

stealthily_ · 2019-11-24T06:14:16+00:00

Impossible. This is a choice that can end a man's life.

the_great_potato2 · 2019-11-24T06:22:29+00:00

I think you already know the answer to that.

HELL NO!!!

What is my long term plan? Enjoy life as much as I can. Get some nice muscle cars and fix them up. Maybe even make them faster. Probably move out of California.

2019-11-24T06:22:38+00:00

No I've seen how that shit has worked for my uncles my one now dead to me simp friend (that should be tell you why). And all the other poor bastards whoever got married. Fuck that.

ThrowawayGYOW · 2019-11-24T06:36:47+00:00

No.

When you reach my age (28), you start to realize how many times in life older people have warned you against doing something bad. I've done those things (smoking, ditching class, not trying your hardest in school, etc.). I was a dumb kid back then, not anymore.

Marriage is even worse than those things as an onlooker. I've witnessed 1) older people telling me not to get married 2) older people trying so hard to seem happy but dying on the inside and 3) my friends that are only recently married openly showing cracks of unhappiness.

Hard not to ignore the signs and it's so easy to follow them given how women in the 18-35 range are in 2019!

EmaDaCuz · 2019-11-24T07:13:12+00:00

Short answer: no.

Long answer: I have been having a genuinely good relationship for almost a year now, with someone who is almost half my age at the moment, and enjoying every single moment out of it. Told her from day 1: if you want to be with me, you follow my rules (which, to be fair, are basically "be a decent person") and let me live my life. We don't cohabitate, we live in different towns, have different jobs, have our own hobbies, and so far so good. When I get triggered, I tell her to leave. She does the same. We respect each other, and that for me is enough.
One day she brought up the "kids" stuff, and specifically asked how do I feel about having one sproglet because I am getting old and to continue my bloodline. The answer was straight forward: no. I explained to her why I don't want a child -which is mainly because my son or daughter would have to live in a horrible world with no future, and I would love my kid to be as happy as it gets- and she agreed. She once dropped the "getting married at some point" bomb. Told her that I would rather spend that money for a few nice trips around the world, that a wedding and a married life don't make you any happier if you are already with the person you want to spend your life with. I also mentioned the high divorce rate. Once again, she agreed with me. But even more, she started to tell to her friends that getting married is stupid, having kids is selfish and cruel, and that everyone should enjoy their lives, first.

Just to add: someone here said that marriage is for stupid people. And I agree, because it is pretty clear that nowadays married families (with many kids) are generally from the very low social class, whereas more intelligent, educated, and successful people tend to live independently or have some sort of committed relationship but without the usual suspects (marriage, cohabition, kids). This is somewhat worrying, though, as the good genes are becoming scarcer and the new generations are definitely going to have a rather horrible genetic pool.

junglecitymonk · 2019-11-24T08:46:00+00:00

I want to have kids and a family. I don’t want to be married. I don’t want to be with a women. I remain an optimist that technology will find an answer.

0rbital-nugget · 2019-11-24T06:57:12+00:00

Nope. Not getting married and not having kids. I have two older brothers and somewhere around 50+ cousins and other distant relatives. So “continuing the bloodline.” Doesn’t really appeal to me. That and the fact that I’ll be dead, and none of it will matter.

Plus I don’t like kids.

As for getting married. I personally don’t know anyone who’s married and also happy. I don’t see why I would think it would work for me if it hasn’t worked for so many others

redvisionsss · 2019-11-24T07:07:41+00:00

No. Went through two parental divorces and have seen my friends get divorced. Its just a waste of time for idiots.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-11-24T07:42:02+00:00

Never getting married, got a vasectomy at 24 so no having kids either, been a monk for over 3 years and planning to spend the time I used to waste on women making music, working on my video game, hitting the gym and camping with my dog.

DannyTTT55 · 2019-11-24T08:31:35+00:00

Never, even if I find some way around the system to have children without the state. Maybe overseas...

Title	Genuine Question: Do you plan on getting married?
Author	Szeen_R
Upvotes	3
Comments	34
Date	November 24, 2019 5:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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