Convince me to break up with my girlfriend

DWShimoda · 2018-05-07T03:40:05+00:00

Not my monkey, not my circus.

Fucking go and marry the bitch if you want.

Or, you know... grow a pair, take responsibility for your own damned life and ditch the bitch.

But quit fucking WHINING and shifting shit off onto others.

BrownMayonnaise · 2018-05-07T03:17:03+00:00

Dude, read what you wrote back to yourself. You don't need any convincing.

Bring her in for a soft landing. A little damage control. Something like "you're a really great person but I don't think you're right for me, I'm sorry. We have different aspirations in life, different religious ideals, and I think you would be happier in the long run with someone who shared that stuff with you."

There. Done.

somuchluv2give · 2018-05-07T03:13:54+00:00

It depends what you want. When I had a gf I would often make lists of the pros and cons to figure out if the juice was worth the squeeze. I had a high tolerance for bullshit back then, so I stayed with her longer than I should have. What happened was over the years eventually she just stopped making me happy, there was lying. Secrets, and disrespect. But even with all that the sex was still 10/10. It was only until I finally got bored of fucking her that I as able to pull the plug on the relationship. Once the spell of her magic pussy wears off, you’ll realize very quickly that the girl is not worth having in your life any longer. But in my case the sex was on a different level than what I typically hear from average people. When ppl tell me about their sex it sounds nothing close to what I was involved in. I think the pussy power has extreme variance. If you find yourself a girl and train her to fuck u like a porn star and she has a tight pussy that fits your cock just right, you might be in for a wild roller coaster and it’s gona be hard to get off that ride. That I must tell u.

OldTimeyENT · 2018-05-07T05:31:35+00:00

I'm gonna say this, listen to your gut instinct. Don't lie to yourself, and go for a soul walk. Just walk and think. No phone. No nothing. Walk for a couple hours. I'm one introverted mother fucker but I also have lived so many different lives. My instinct led me to where I am and I am happy.

FordGourde · 2018-05-07T03:04:38+00:00

There is literally no reason to be in a relationship that you are u happy about unless you have a kid. Once you break up, a month later (hopefully sooner) you'll be back to normal. There's no reason to make yourself unhappy. For what? Because you feel comfortable? You were once normal being alone. You will return to that state.

Mick_Donalds · 2018-05-07T03:05:37+00:00

Write her a shitty ass text and just end it. You've already convinced yourself. You don't need her to be your best. SHE needs you to sponge off of. She wants you to provide shit for her. Face it, she's a risk to your reputation, your credit, and your ability to make decisions.

You don't need her. Break it off and tell her that she's just not interesting, and that you want a "Stacy" instead (even though you don't need one of those either).

Global_MGTOW · 2018-05-07T03:15:32+00:00

Just be honest with yourself and break up with her before it gets worse. Can you actually imagine accidentally knocking her up? What about moving together or getting married? Get out while you still can.

2018-05-07T03:42:00+00:00

Your setting yourself to be hurt, she just uses you for attention and validation. I am willing to bet she is going to be bored and is probably riding a few dicks already.

NetoIncognito · 2018-05-07T07:11:47+00:00

The fact you posted this on here shows you know what to do.

A stranger's words is worth nil.

Also in general, telling someone to do something is pointless you are going to do what you are going to do regardless what anyone says.

I had to learn this lesson by telling my friend to dump his cheating girlfriend. What did he do? He went back to his cheating girlfriend. What did she do? She cheated again and again. He finally got the message the third time she cheated on him.

labiteatibit · 2018-05-07T07:27:53+00:00

Only simps need convincing to break up with a thot.

cekujiw · 2018-05-07T08:43:07+00:00

If you're not a Christian, why are you with one? Either she's just a nominal Christian (aka not a real Christian) or she thinks she can convert you (naive). I hope you do understand the gravity of this situation. Two people with major ideological differences will never end up happy, whether political, religious, social, or philosophical. There are at least two - religion and marriage/children (social). Religion alone is a huge no no.

If you can't see yourself happy, why do you need convincing? You have already made up your mind. You just want us to tell you what you want to hear.

DJDickJob · 2018-05-07T08:44:20+00:00

Dude just politely end the relationship. Starting a family at that young of an age is a bad idea, so just do what you know will make you happy.

TB409 · 2018-05-07T13:14:46+00:00

If you want to get rid of her start acting clingy and insecure.

ZeroBlink · 2018-05-07T21:14:18+00:00

"We talk on the phone every night for an hour or two" - What are you gay?

Diabloist337 · 2018-05-07T03:21:34+00:00

I remember what my MGTOW friend once said, "I don't need to convince you. She will convince you for this."

Despite the fact that I'm still married, I can't help but wonder how right he was.

Title	Convince me to break up with my girlfriend
Author	Idkwhoiamtoday
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Comments	22
Date	May 7, 2018 3:01 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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