Hey,

We all know girls are emotional and to never listen to what they say but watch what they do. When talking to my LTR I usually just pretend like I didn’t hear anything she didn’t say. Sometimes when texting she’ll express frustration about work or school and try to talk to me about it but then act in a shitty way kind of taking that stress out on me. I don’t have time for that. I usually just don’t reply or ignore and then she comes back apologizing later for acting that way.

Next time I’m thinking of letting her know that if she needs some time to herself we should take a break or to just talk to me when she’s better. Is this the best approach? Retract and pull away?

Im trying to train her to the way I want and reward the good behaviours and punish dumb stuff like this.

Example: she’s overwhelmed with school work and something with her siblings so she’ll send me shitty replies cause she’s in a bad mood. I won’t reply, next day she’ll come back and apologize for acting like that.

Any advice? She’s young and naive and has stuff handed to her all her life. She’s never worked for anything so any sign of discomfort or being uncomfortable throws her off.