I unfortunately have to stay on Facebook for my business (FB Marketplace, etc.). One contact, who is a divorced, single mom of two biracial sons, has been posting hard on FB in terms of how difficult things are for her. For one thing, she now won't have sex before marriage (born-again TradCon?). And she posted the following:

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I have been very open about waiting to have sex until I remarry because I see to many around me chasing lust and getting burned and wondering why. We tell our kids to wait till marriage yet we don't take our own advise. Or practice what we preach. Dont get me wrong waiting SUCKS, and at times you just want to say F this.. but waiting will keep you focused on love not lust, and building a solid foundation. Waiting is a personal journey and not everyone is willing to take, I had many first and last dates because of waiting. It's to the point where on a date and I mention waiting I can see the shift in their eyes, and you know you wont be getting a second date. Many times I have heard well I won't buy a car without test driving it first... sorry buddy i am not a ride.. and if the price of waiting is to high to pay, you  cant afford the value and worth I bring. I stand firm in what I believe and so will the right man...
Friends it's ok to not be the norm, to stand out..dont let the world tell you what you should and should not do, they dont pay the price you do...
I am Rising Stronger

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Feel sorry for her a bit. But who told you to bang Tyrone in the first place? Alpha widow, born-again tradcon...

(This probably belongs on that Where Are All the Good Men subreddit as well...)