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[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sopranos
This is a fictional TV show. What other works of fiction rule your life?
in their cavewoman brains, actually CRAVE being dominated and left unsatisfied
This hasn't changed - women CRAVE being dominated. However, no woman has ever wanted to be left unsatisfied. That part is not true.
Imagine if women were discussing this right now: "I saw in TV show that guys love being left unsatified, so I will stop doing blow jobs as it makes us women weak"
so gtfo with this bullshit mmkay
[–]Battle-Scars15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love eating pussy and if you don't, please introduce me to your girlfriend.
[–]Eastuss4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm in a place where people seem to not do it, gf's female friends think I am a sex god...
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Eating pussy isn't beta. Just a rule of thumb, regardless on the situation alpha dick beats beta tongue. If your girl wants your tongue more then your dick then reconsider what's actual going on.
[–]Eastuss1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What does that mean, just the thought of you penetrating her should be enough if you're alpha?
[–]1StuttBuffer4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think it helps to differentiate between mental and mechanical stimulation. Getting dominated and penetrated is what girls find universally "hot". Both the idea and the act of doing it are arousing. For something like oral though, it is not so the idea of being eaten out, but rather the actual mechanics of it that make it feel physically good while it's happening. You need to please both the mind and body, and oral is uniquely pleasing to the body.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Couldn't have said it better.
Dick= mental and mechanical stimulation
tongue= mechanical stimulation
With the tongue you can't really dominate her like you can with your dick. So use it accordingly. Use too much and you become a bitch in other words. Always choose dick over eating her out and don't allow her to dictate when you eat her out its a huge turn off. Make it seem like its your choice and you actual want to eat her our, disregarding what she wants.
[–]Eastuss0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I know that, but that's not what your comment made me think of.
With some of my partner, I could do whatever I wanted, if she didn't stimulate her clit "mechanically", not only there wouldn't be any orgasm but also there would be pain. :/ The mental part usually only helps getting to the orgasm faster.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i've read that the more orgasms you give a woman, the more attracted she becomes to you because of the oxytocin release
This is true.
And that women, in their cavewoman brains, actually CRAVE being dominated and left unsatisfied
Yeah, this is definitely a thing with some women some of the time.
In answer to your question OP: it doesn't matter. Lick her if you want to, don't if you don't. Dominate her either way, and make sure she's getting powerful/rough alpha sex from your dick.
Also, look up intermittent rewards. You don't encourage good behavior by giving a dog treats 100% of the time, closer to 25%.
it's the expectation and uncertainty that hooks em
[–]KryptoniteFree1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I go down on a woman for a few reasons.
I love eating a tasty pussy (it's for my satisfaction)
Making my bitch cum as much as possible makes it very difficult for her to stop thinking about me.
[–]DoubleTappp1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking hell.
You must be new.
This is a dumb myth most black people believe. If you have any sort of attraction to the woman, go down on her, if it's a ONS avoid doing it. If she wants to do a tit for tat, you go down on me I'll do you, get out of there because that's a false rape claim waiting to happen.
The more you bang the same woman the less you have to do to please her, only eat her out if you want. If it's an annoying long time hook up, get your nut off ASAP then kick her out
[–]shivatalwar-2 points-1 points0 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
hmm with my woman my girlfriend I stopped doing oral except on rare occasions and she is actually loving me just banging her hard as fuck for like 20 minutes. Any more and she starts hurting any less and she stays on me and keeps kissing me and saying WHY WHY are you not hard (at this point im like meh im done heh). Its all about finding that sweet spot and saving oral for special ocassions. She craves sex more when shes slightly (KEYWORD SLIGHTLY) unsatisfied and then satisfied in sips.
Not special, RANDOM occasions. There's nothing special about oral, its more about the surprise effect.
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