Been vetting a girl for an LTR for the past 7 months, first girl where I had really internalized TRP and things really started coming together. She fully sees me as alpha, defers to my leadership, invests in the relationship, does anything I want to please me, etc.
Anyways, the other day we hung out for the first time in a completely non-sexual context. I take her with me on various activities from time to time, but we always have sex afterwards. I was going to take a study break and go for a walk in a part of the city near where she lives, so I hit her up just for some company while I took my walk, involved no extra effort on my part. I had to go back to studying after so we went on my walk for, I went to the Asian Market with her and then dropped her off at home. She is always the one initiating physical contact when we're together, and this time was no different. I had already thoroughly fucked her two nights before so it wasn't really a big deal to me to not have sex, and I didnt have time anyways. I had mentioned I had to study more so she didn't offer to hang out more after my walk.
This is the only time we've ever hung out completely non-sexual context, and I dont plan on making a habit of it so I'm not worried about it. I've read the sidebar and a lot of TRP but I'm wondering where the limit is for giving non-sexual attention is before it damages alpha frame, even when she has earned it. Can hanging out like this, even very occasionally, damage her alpha perception?
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