Let me explain, theres nothing wrong with playing candy crush, or flappy bird on your iphone from time to time, but if your a lady who's into RPGs like skyrim, fallout ect, or competitive games like league of legends you are a trainwreck without a doubt. Back when I was in college I knew girls who played games like these, they all had some weird personality defect, some would dress in dykish clothing, others would be way to invovled with the lore and characters of the video games to the point that it was creepy...they always gave off bad vibes. It's just that certain hobbies are male dominated, while others are female dominated, nothing wrong with that, us men dont play with makeup and nor should we. There have been to many bad examples for me to ever discount my experience it's not natural or healthy.