Taking feminism out of the equation, what is women's obsession with wanting to be represented in everything?

What are you getting out of being represented in everything?

Do they just want that attention like a child craves it?

Do women want to think they command respect or something?

Someone explain to me what their obsession with wanting representation is

Representation in something, just like respect, is earned and not given

Even in things like the military and government, 2 institutions heavily criticized by the moralist left, women beg for representation like crazy

Can someone explain to me why they think they're entitled to all this representation of mainstream society?