How did you heal yourself after turning mgtow?

mongolian_usa · 2020-05-20T21:02:18+00:00

I healed before becoming MGTOW, technically before I even learned it existed. Or another way to put it, I became MGTOW because the healing process allowed me to really see the truth.

Prototype_Grendel · 2020-05-20T21:57:35+00:00

Mgtow was part of my healing process. It let me let go of the anger, see why she acted like she did, and accept it. It taught me to look out for myself.

It also took about two years before i felt i could fully move on. You cant rush it.

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-05-20T22:12:23+00:00

I use this subreddit as therapy, I come here to share my opinions and sometimes my experiences and then I get replies and feedback which helps me feel like I am not alone when I feel down.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-05-20T22:13:15+00:00

MGTOW is about forgiving (red pill rage) those who hurt you for which you were not even aware of when you were blue pilled and suffering from Stockholm syndrome actually loving and defending your abusers!

mgtowmale · 2020-05-21T00:52:27+00:00

Anger isn't inherently bad... I believe that emotions are messages from your subconscious. There's something you should be paying attention to and dealing with. It may be simply that you need time to build a new value system or moral framework that fits your new outlook on life... however this takes time, and feeling like you've wasted so much already can be... angering.

Unchanneled anger can be a bad thing, however, so finding an outlet for it may help. I personally would recommend getting in some training in a form of combat... boxing, muay thai, krav maga, something like that. Although, the whole Covid-19 thing may make that a bit more challenging.

gimmeabreakfuk · 2020-05-21T03:40:36+00:00

You think about what happened long enough and your mind """resolves""" the issue that makes you suffer.

Grief cycle that ends with acceptance of the situation.

DangZagnut · 2020-05-20T20:39:37+00:00

Heal from what? Marriage didn't suddenly become a different form of retardation, it's always been retarded.

Women are fun for lots of things, but long term committed relationships isn't one of them.

softbeats · 2020-05-20T21:08:42+00:00

I took the waifu pill. Getting my intimacy by cuddling my anime girl body pillow is incredibly therapeutic and healing to me.

vrsatillx · 2020-05-20T21:44:20+00:00

I have been mgtow for 3 years. First one was pure suffering. Second was time for me to build my life. Now I'm laughing when I have red pill moments. I guess time helps

sers00100 · 2020-05-20T23:01:07+00:00

Its pretty good, Guys. Its really the best Thing that happend to me.

BlackPilledYekke · 2020-05-21T01:11:26+00:00

Heal? More like finding a word other than stoic to describe yourself

RussMgtow- · 2020-05-21T05:21:25+00:00

Heal? Heal what exactly?

ro_gtow · 2020-05-21T05:53:39+00:00

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Title	How did you heal yourself after turning mgtow?
Author	ivanbxng
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	May 20, 2020 8:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/gnje3c/how_did_you_heal_yourself_after_turning_mgtow/
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