When to let go

FairlyWhelmed · 2020-05-22T23:24:41+00:00

How to know when to let go friend, girlfriend any of the people you care about but they dont.

It's up to you. Your values, your choices. No one here can tell you the "right" time/way/criteria because there aren't any. Trust yourself and your gut feeling.

2020-05-22T23:46:38+00:00

I stopped believing in friendship and relationships ages ago - these are just polite ways of taking advantage of somebody. Notice how people will only befriend you when they want or need something from you. If you are humble and don’t brag about oneself or show off expensive stuff no one gives a shit about your existence but as soon as you tell someone “I got a pool installed” or “I know (a certain celebrity)” or “I won the lotto jackpot” all of a sudden people want to be your friend. Just drop off the radar for a bit and see if they reach out. If they don’t then they’re not worth the time or effort.

boltjamison · 2020-05-22T23:56:01+00:00

Listen to your gut

ZealousMaths · 2020-05-22T23:46:26+00:00

A good metric is when it’s been a few weeks and you lead all the convos, but there’s no reason they can’t suggest anything too.

StingRayFins · 2020-05-23T00:15:31+00:00

If you feel like you're the only one trying then it's time to let go. The only thing that'll happen is you wear yourself out until you're forced to let go. Some things are worth holding on to only if there is something to hold onto. Many times we like to believe there is when there isn't.

The other thing to consider is if they really care then no matter what you do they'll be there. So it's important to just do you and not worry about things like that. Stay in shape, focus on making more money, and start owning things. People will have to respect you.

XGHOW · 2020-05-22T23:42:07+00:00

As soon as someone violates your principals. 1 strike rule.

My advice is to sure up your principals, make them steel.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-05-23T06:32:15+00:00

You wake up and realize you are in love with a cold snake...and then you stop!

Title	When to let go
Author	Budget_Friend
Upvotes	21
Comments	7
Date	May 22, 2020 11:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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