After getting dumped my self esteem and confidence has been in the gutter. Also I have some friends but a lot of times I feel they seem indifferent to my presence and no one really texts me or anything like that very often. I also just feel like people don't respect me or care about me. I know this sounds like whining and bitching but there is a point to it. I feel like my whole life I have been trying to take the easy route out of things and I am done with that. I want to make something of my life and be happy and fulfilled for one. The main issue for me is socializing. I feel I will be able to get my body looking good and I will be able to get my career on the right track, but sometimes I just feel like I will never be able to get over my social issues and not feel inferior and awkward. Do you think if I get my body and career on track the rest will fall into place? Or do I need to be working somewhere else? I know I sound like I'm whining and complaining but I really do want to get myself on track and I'm willing to work my ass off to do it.