Is looks to some extent in eyes of the beholder?

mikrodizels · 2020-05-26T17:55:25+00:00

Yes and no.

There are multiple ways to be conventionally attractive, no one has it all.

Blondes, brunettes and redheads tend to hold a certain aesthetic for example, all of them look good conventionally, but not everyone likes everything.

Then theres stuff like heavy metal/punk girls, that only a niche of men actually like and are not conventionally attractive.

KingGerbz · 2020-05-26T18:11:42+00:00

Like others have stated the answer is both. There are some general guidelines to what’s universally accepted as attractive. Strong jawline, tall, muscles, whatever.

The point is to maximize your life including your looks. Girls who find you attractive will fuck you. Girls who don’t can fuck off. Even the most attractive guys aren’t attractive to all women. Everyone has their preferences.

All you need to do is continue striving to become the best version of yourself

Powerfucking5000 · 2020-05-26T17:59:14+00:00

I don't know man. I mean my wife is definitely a HB 8 but my close friends don't believe a woman who wears size 24 can be anything higher than a -6. It's all very confusing at times.

Honestly, you might have to differentiate between someone objectively beautiful/pretty to someone who knows how to dress hot but still not be pretty. Clothes, makeup, hair dyed, et cetera can give men a false impression.

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Snowboard18 · 2020-05-26T19:21:26+00:00

It’s a solid mix of both

Youngyoda89 · 2020-05-26T20:11:47+00:00

People have their types. Once you learn to recognize the type of girl that is attracted to you, it will feel like you can fuck any chick you want. But with the 80/20 rule, if you’re attractive to some women you’re attractive to most. But rule of thumb here is always assume attraction.

I know a guy, a few years younger than me, who slayed like crazy bc he can talk. He can walk into any bar and make friends with every single person in the bar. He isn’t ugly- blonde hair blue eyes, but he isn’t a model either- overweight.

The1ndex · 2020-05-26T21:55:19+00:00

Biologically speaking, you will be driven towards women who are healthy, but a bit different from yourself. This drive ensures that the majority of the population aren’t fucking their siblings, creating weak genes, but rather fucking healthy strangers so form strong genes.

Title	Is looks to some extent in eyes of the beholder?
Author	strongerthandeath97
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Date	May 26, 2020 5:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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