How to keep women as just friends?

softbeats · 2020-06-02T00:29:17+00:00

What platonic, non-sex aspect of women are you seeking a friendship for?

crityouallday · 2020-06-02T01:03:56+00:00

Sooner or later finding women who share my interests come at a cost. So i avoid the cost and do the interest without distractions, complaining, making it about her. Peace of mind is priceless.

DangZagnut · 2020-06-02T00:31:44+00:00

Sure, you can date and not cohabitate, just make sure she's a far enough distance from you that it's a pain in the ass to make an easy commute.

Lots of women don't want to cohabitate either. You just keep them at arms length if they get to clingy.

Basically do what chicks do and it's easy.

RussMgtow- · 2020-06-02T03:57:21+00:00

You don't. Simple as that, they provide 0 value.

coffeemancan · 2020-06-02T00:32:43+00:00

Do you want an actual girlfriend, or do you just want a friend you can mess around with once in awhile?

Fenvy · 2020-06-02T01:13:48+00:00

Dude, if you guys like risks so much why dont you put all your money into stock options at least the payout would be worth it.

scocasso · 2020-06-02T03:36:40+00:00

I say it's always playing with fire, no matter the interaction. If they don't own their own place, they are always looking to co-habitate.

TruMaleFeminist · 2020-06-02T05:09:25+00:00

Women and men were not meant to be just friends. I don't care how many people out there that claim to have friends of the opposite sex there are. Unless they're gay, they're just lurking because they want something. For friendship, stick with dudes.

thatMGTOWguy · 2020-06-02T06:08:13+00:00

Treat them like how you treat men but don’t expect the same level in return. Don’t give them pussy passes or be soft. Hold them accountable and watch them disappear faster than the speed of light

SwordMasterLink79 · 2020-06-02T08:11:22+00:00

Have been living with women as flatmates for years. I would advice against it.

Women love drama.

So far I have always been bad-mouthed by them. Overall it's not worth the trouble.

BlackPillPusher · 2020-06-02T09:21:46+00:00

Keep them friendzoned and make sure they know you're not interested in any sort of intimate relationship, I have a few female friends like that and we're cool, sometimes they'll make their advancements but I always promptly refuse and remind them that it's not in my best interest.

ElectricalTradition8 · 2020-06-02T00:31:02+00:00

Eye contact basically means you'll open your wallet for her. From then on try just being friends and see how it goes.

XGHOW · 2020-06-02T00:52:31+00:00

I’m in a similar boat. I don’t have any hatred to the opposite gender, just understanding. My 02 cents and best advice is make sure that you are strong, principled person first, and you will see that this is the kind of person you will attract into your life, including women who are also strong and principled. The hidden benefit is, because they too are on that level, they’ll respect your wish to not cohabitate or anything else, and you can explore the relationship, in whatever form it takes, in so many other ways. I’ve had many great people, men and women in my life because of this lifestyle choice. This had been my experience. I’m also a MGTOW that has a history of good relationships with women, both as lovers and friends. Best of luck.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-06-02T01:18:44+00:00

when she cooks me good food, I dont mind hanging out for a while! But I aint gonna play friend while being used by women!

mrtinlv · 2020-06-02T02:12:06+00:00

Your plan can work but it's only for a limited time.

kriskros18 · 2020-06-02T02:24:20+00:00

Back to your question - friendship is based on commonalities. Do you like pop culture, fashion, and gossip? Work on these and you’re golden.

Set boundaries early on to avoid being walked all over.

Personally, the juice is not worth the squeeze.

negressnig · 2020-06-02T02:53:47+00:00

I have a few women platonic friends. They aren't your typical woman to be very clear but I enjoy their company. Just have to set early boundaries ("I'm not your boyfriend or your therapist") and prepare to deal with the possibility of them developing feelings and how to move past that if it happens. I treat them exactly the same as I do my guy friends so I only tolerate minimal amounts of stupid bullshit.

Dexmethan · 2020-06-02T04:08:36+00:00

I don't think its a good idea. I have one woman who I thought was my friend trying to get me fired right now. I thought she was legit because shes married, but I think she has feelings for me, and now is trying to destroy my life because I don't feel the same way. Of course since shes a woman i have to sit back and take it up the ass. Guilty before proven innocent.

I tried to recover some old deleted text messages between us that would really help my case but I haven't had any luck. Slightly off topic but, is there anyway i can recover lost text messages through my phone provider or the police, no matter what? They have to have been "saved" somewhere right? I'm using an android device, and by the things I've been reading is that after a certain amount of time your deleted texts are lost forever.

MrGordija · 2020-06-02T04:13:39+00:00

You would have a better time trying to tame a pigeon and teaching it to whistle China's national anthem

Search "Why men and woman cant be friends" on yt and you will see for yourself

since25jan2019 · 2020-06-02T15:13:49+00:00

With any woman, you will share your money as a common interest.

And as long as you thirst for cunt, grasshopper, you will be doomed.

OnceAHermit · 2020-06-02T21:50:19+00:00

I suppose its not impossible - but tbh I don't see the point searching for that particular needle in a haystack myself. As far as I can tell, getting on with women is code for hoping to get laid.

jd46249 · 2020-06-03T04:39:55+00:00

So I have several friends that are girls. They can be fun most of the time when out partying and such. I tend to have a better time when chicks are around when partying/clubs. However a lot of the times they’ll want you to listen on their issues. And it’s NON stop. They’re way over dramatic and seem to always have problems.

I recommend to keep them as acquaintances only. That way you get the benefit of partying with them without being that “friend” that they pour out all their emotional baggage. Oh and don’t EVER tell them (or anyone) any secrets. Obviously this can and will get out as they love to gossip.

2020-06-02T05:26:40+00:00

Enjoy her body, just be cautious of attachment. Which will happen for one party or both sooner or later.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-06-02T07:37:20+00:00

Take sex out of the equation. I found out that's improving my interaction with women greatly.

Title	How to keep women as just friends?
Author	unkn0wnbyte
Upvotes	21
Comments	29
Date	June 2, 2020 12:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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