How to push through

AbundantOverflow · 2020-08-15T04:23:46+00:00

When I dealt with this in the past, I would either refer to my new standards (which would make it clear why no one from the past mattered or was good enough) or take concrete action toward one of my non-relationship goals. I preferred the latter because it helped me expand my sense of what was possible for my life instead of focusing on nonsense from the past.

hikurangi2019 · 2020-08-15T09:02:13+00:00

Thanks to FDS I’ve started to examine not just my most recent break up but every relationship in my life, my family, friends, and every romantic relationship.

I’m learning about manipulation tactics and what it means to set boundaries. I’ve been taking a lot of notes so I have reference and it will be something I will continue to add to.

Any future romantic relationship I encounter I will proceed with extreme caution because it’s a lot of pain trying to recover from a failed relationship.

Right now I plan on focusing on my career, my physical and mental health, and the people I have in my life.

I have always been fiercely independent but deep down I also crave emotional connection and emotional support, I will learn to validate myself, and be gentle with myself. I will care for myself like a loving parent would, no more self loathing.

Title	How to push through
Author	brittany20204
Upvotes	10
Comments	3
Date	August 14, 2020 8:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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