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What to do to get people to think of me as datable/worth fucking?

ImMoneyMakinMitch · 2020-05-18T03:13:06+00:00

I have a guy friend who has this hot girl roommate. We're all on a post-work Zoom session one day and he shows her and says, "guys what do you...

ImMoneyMakinMitch

May 18, 2020

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Title	What to do to get people to think of me as datable/worth fucking?
Author	ImMoneyMakinMitch
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	May 18, 2020 3:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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[–]ImMoneyMakinMitch[S] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I was at a happy hour one night, with Ashley and 6 other people. Guys and girls. A few girls were playing the "who from work can we hook you up with Ashley." They proceed to go down the list of guys who come to their mind. Here I am sitting next to Ashley thinking "what about me?"

No debt. Own a half a million dollar condo at age 23, high paying/interesting job, according to the girls I work with I "always dress nice" - Brooks Brother's made in the USA shirts and nice shoes. Weekends I wear a short sleeve button down shirt with nice shoes and tan/navy pants.

I was homeless 2 years ago - for several years. I dressed like shit when I started my job this year but upgraded the wardrobe. I don't drink/smoke at all so I'm kind of awkward when going out. Probably don't seem fun. Due to previous life situations I'm probably too money focused at work - but it's fucking work.

Black. Photogenic pics but if I swiped right on a thousand girls, I matched 3 or 4. I'm. 5'6, 180 pounds. Down from 205 pounds but I guess I still have a ways to go. Typically get a 6/10 rating on looks. I know there are some things I still must improve upon, but 3 matches out of a thousand?

Jack on the other hand it the typical 6'4, white, former Frat, Republican looking Chad.

[–]skyrunner224 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

First off interested af to hear how you go from homeless to two years later, no debt half milli condo at such young age. Thats impressive

Ok Now it makes a little more sense, at 5'6 depending on your body type you got to get down to like 165 ripped up.. You are close but you will see big changes from like 180 to under 170. You might have to get to 160 range. That will get you lean athletic look. Unless a chick likes you, I doubt you will win many random battles against 6'4 looking chad. I say give that up.

Also if you are looking for short term hook ups at 23, gonna have to swag out a little more. Put the suits up or save them for work. Also put the button ups away, only break them out on easter sunday or some shit. Get a more young attractive type vibe that will attract the type of chicks you want. Most likely with brooks bros you are giving square i am future beta bux vibes.. You want, bitch Im future hendrix fuxboi vibez..

Also online dating will be hard at your height, build your stable by approaching women. Work on your game in person. I think that will work better for you. But if you want to try online, try when you update wardrobe and style (haircut, jewelry, etc)

[–]E9er2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

nah idk, a classy attire plays too man. you don’t gotta dress like an overgrown toddler with a backwards cap and hip hop clothiers. what’s the saying go: dress like a nerd act like a pornstar. i’ve elevated my game by dressing in a comfortable dress shirt and some jeans. but don’t give a fuck if the details are there or it’s pristine. just put it on 2 sprays of cologne and we are off. if it’s a fancy dinner throw a blazer on top and were good. now imagine a young 20something dressing like this with a half a mill condo... that screams this guy has his shit together. i want that!! he’s different from all the basement dwellers. he might be more suitable as LTR potential or a bf rather than a one night fuck but she doesn’t have to know that she can go in thinking he’s mr perfect long term chump and he can play to their vanity fuck them and dump them.

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[–]E9er0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

thanks for the compliment. as do you, but there is always improvement for MORE. i just wanted to question attire. i felt insecure wearing baggy stylish clothe. aka hip, young. as compared to refined comfortable style. since in HS that was my comfort zone. classy but not fancy just presentable enough. and now with my friend who is 23 and has insecurity about rejection and out talking. i told him bro, try a polo dress shirt and some levi’s and doc marten boots. (he was a rocker) and told him just say what’s up. his rate of return on girls smiling and saying hi went up. not to mention he has tattoos so when he lifts his sleeves he’s sending all the right signals. he’s like bro why do they notice me now. i’m like because now you represent respect. you’re dressed good so you have money, you have style. which means you know what you’re doing, which yells you have confidence. that’s the biggest IOI girls love from guys. and now it’s a snowball effect and his HI’s went to conversation. so my point is attire helps man. girls have that daddy issue about older men who have their shit together and most often in suits and well dressed now imagine a guy your age with that image. BAMMM...

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