Late 20s male, had condom sex for the first time with a 40s cougar recently

My thoughts after doing the dirty a couple of times now, finally: It is overrated, requires effort, requires negotiation, and fapping is better.

Pornography needs to be outright banned and I think it has warped my senses over the years into preferring it over actual sex, but that pussy cat is out of the bag now and I'm not sure if it's ever going back, for better or for worse.

I'm sure sex with a younger woman more in her prime is better than with a cougar, but I honestly cannot imagine it being that much better. Mechanically, sex just is what it is. The juice just ain't worth the squeeze.