Been lurking this page for a couple of months, and have enjoyed the content so far but it having issues with the opposite sex. I won’t bore you with the details of my personal life, but I’ll answer any questions if need be. Basically I restarted my life when I was 20 and was forced to take the red pill. I became a totally different person but left behind my whole life completely. During this restart I’ve gone from 6’3 150 to 6’3 205 from lifting which significantly improved my appearance. I’ve gotten the looks, and as much as I’d like to say my confidence has improved it simply hasn’t. The funny thing is in every other aspect of my life it’s there. I went from making a 2.0 in college to now making 4.0s. I work 65 hours a week right now, and am currently studying for the lsat for law school. I’ve become a very driven individual with a bright future, but I still don’t have it with woman. I’d say I’m very attractive tbh, but still lack confidence. I am suffering from oneitis in the worst possible way. I have a massive crush on a girl that’s only talked to me 5 times total. I’ve become obsessed with her, because I’ve never been more confident that a girl likes me. This girl is drop dead gorgeous, the only thing is she has a boyfriend. After the first time we talked I stalked her on social media and found that out. I tell myself I would’ve asked her for her number if I would’ve found out she didn’t have a BF, but tbh I probably would’ve been a pussy. I know I need to forget about her, but my ultimate question is what do I do? Do I just fuck easy girls because I know I can? Do I aggressively pursue someone next semester? I’m open to anything, I’m just sick of falling short in this area, I’m fucking lonely!

Tldr: 23 struggles with females. Have made a complete turnaround since restarting life at age 20. Have become a lot more attractive, and received attention but don’t know what to do with it. Have oneitis for a girl that shouldn’t matter as I’ve never fucked or dated. Lost and need direction. Sick of falling short. Lonely